I'm at a loss. My family is fucking ignorant. This is kind of long but I had to rant and see if everyone here thinks I'm the idiot or they are fucked up. My Grandmother is the head of the family and everyone complains about money and shit and nobody gets along. They all hate each other. My Grandma wants everyone to get along and be happy and have everything they could want. Well. Some people have taken advantage of that. My Uncle David is one greedy bastard. 15 years ago he had this ratty old townhouse that needed alot of work. My Grandmother said she would fix it up if he would let my mom stay in it with me and my 3 brothers a few years after she divorced my dad and she was trying to geto n her feet. My mom would buy it. About a year later my uncle tries to sell it - all nicely remodled with all new stuff, new tiles, carpet, AC, everything. Worth hardly anything before fix up worth lots after fix up. Screw his sister. Then he likes to play the big shot. He helped them invest in some property then he got a finders fee. Then a few years down the line he got more money because he played the "You wouldn't have any of this if it wasn't for me" card. He played this over and over again. My grandmother bought a townhouse to invest in and when my grandfather was alive he wanted him to live there because it was safer for him and his family. So they moved in. THEN by magic the house gets put into his name (probably got my grams to sign something under her nose) and several years later sells it for huge amounts of money. Giving my grandmother nothing. Not even what she paid for it. There is so much more and would be 20 more paragraphs but it's stuff like that. So long story short - my uncle - living the high life - my other uncle struggling to keep up my mom struggling to keep her business afloat, the youngest uncle- using $2,000 dollar a month to pay for his house and almony. My grandmother defends everyone trying to see the good in everyone. I guess I'm like that too and perhaps I shouldn't be. She defends people who steal from her and she defended my cousin who was "raised right" by church and good parenting. Well nice girls who go off to college become girls gone wild (not always but I had this nailed on the head). I said it was going to happen and nobody believed me. Well she has myspace (gag) and had some pics posted and i was ilke holy shit. She's a pretty girl and she got a boob job and drives a lexus at 20 years old. She is out drinking, partying, flaunting herself in all these pics and somehow my mom found out (probablly my younger brother) and she wanted my grandmother to see it. My grandmother was like damn I didn't think she would do something like that. So my cousin is all pissed off because my mom wanted my grandmother to see the pictures of her dressed like a fucking bimbo flaunting her car and money that should be my grandmothers. So I showed them. Now I don't know if it's wrong of me to have shown my cousins pics. She wrote me a nice little note: You know, I really didn't have anything against you before but I really think that showing my myspace page to grandma was a little inappropriate. It is none of hers or your business to be showing people and now she thinks I like "flaunting my boobs"? Give me a break. Don't you have anything else better to do beside myspace anyways? When I turn your age I sure as hell hope I have something better to do with my time like having a stable job. What I have in my pictures is my business and if you have a problem with them then you can come talk to me yourself. bye. Well. I am a stay at home mom. I don't want to work. I want to take care of my daughter. Before I moved I was the Office Manager for my security office. I worked 40 hours a week and ran around with a phone and had to be on call 24 hours a day. I have myspace because my brother always wants to show me shit he posts and I have found some of my school friends who I haven't talked to in forever. I only even use it if my brother is like "check out this song" or I see someone writing me a message or whatnot. Putting pics of yourself on myspace isn't exactly a private place. If she didn't want her family to see them she shouldn't have them online. DUH. And lastly. If she didn't want people to think she wasn't "flaunting her boobs" then why the fuck did she get a boob job? I am really fucking pissed. The fucking bitch goes to my grandfather's funeral wearing a frilly pink outfit and leaves early to go to a cheap concert then is pissed because I showed a few pics of her in her sleazy halloween costume (and well MAYBE a few others ). Fuck her. This is only the current problems. God I could go on for weeks about the stupid shit they do. Like how they keep bringing up the fact I payed discounted rent when I stayed in one of my grandmother's apartments. God Forbid I get any kind of break.