Im only 14 so my stupid confusion probably doesnt seem that bad to you, but its killing me, so play along, ok...this girl i liked said she too was attracted to me. So i figured "ok, this could be good i really like her" i asked her out she said yea. Everything was fine for a while. But lately... its like she sais she loves me, but i go to her color guard practices and she wont say anything to me. So WTF im so lost, and now thanks to her, my friends are gettin mad at me cuz i hang out with the person that has an unspoken love for me. Shes 13, im 14, i mean, maybe shes just nervous, but even if she is, than still, come on WTF. Should i go out with her,..or dump her because, honestly i do love her a lot, more than i've ever loved a girl, but life honestly was a lot easier before she came. And really, is this love i wouldnt kno, its the first girl i've really liked, or loved. Heres an example of wat happens,... A couple days a go we were at my friends house, it was me and my gf and him and his gf. We were in his kitchen for a while talkin, she wouldnt say much to me, but we walked into the living room and she grabbed my arm like she wanted to hold my hand. Then.... we were sitting on his couch, and watchin a movie, she was layin on me and everything was fine, then she randomely started kissing me. When that was done she said nothing for like 2 hours, then i had to go, she didnt say bye or anything. I got home and she has her best friend call me to ask if im mad at her cuz she was freakin out that i didnt kiss her or anything when i left. And after all this happend, her best friend tells me that she loves me. Wat does that mean, she loves me , but not enough to show it ,....at all,....ever???