i've found a pattern. guys that supposedly really like me and wanna go out w/ me, dont want to be friends at all if i dont want to be their gf. whats up w/ this? they say that it would hurt them too much to know they couldnt be more than that. I'm sure u guys have prolly said something like that before and i think i know the answer but is that a bunch of bullshit? maybe i would want to go out w/ them if i got to know them better and if i dont want to go out w/ them id definately want to be their friend. does this mean that they dont like me as a person and just someone theyd want to have as a g/f? i know i can definitely count on honest reactions here, thats y im posting it. what do u guys have to say about this?