Ever since I broke up with my GF sophmore year, I haven't been able to get another GF. This is not because girls dont like me, in fact, quite the opposite. Right now I have about 5 girls that I have learned have a thing for me. All of them are nice and attractive, sounds good right? well, I dont know why, but when ever a girl tries to be "more than friends" with me, I go cold. I turn away and avoid them or reject them. They get confused because I talk, flirt and hang out with them, yet I reject them. Many girls refer to me as "quite and mysterious" and that seems to be the attraction, but I have made many girls sad because of how I turned away from them. Things didnt used to be like this, I had a series of GFs from 8th to 10th grade and I had no problems like this. I have a special female friend that a love much, but we are also good friends, it has been that way for years, we have never been officialy together, and I haven't told her the extent of my feelings. she is very popular and always busy, this is why i hold back from telling her. Since we have never been "together" I am, by definition single, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be upset if i had a gf so I dont know if this is what's holding me back. With many of my best friends moved to far away places, my life has become mundane an pretty much devoid of true pleasure. my psychologist says I should get a GF, to solve some of my problems. Anyone know what I'm talking about? any advice?