Do you think it's ok to have two bfs if they don't know about each other? I really like these two guys and I wanna date em both, but I don't know. I kind of am already seeing them both. Not officially dating though. What should I do. What do you tell them? Or do you tell them? I'm just really confused. Could someone help me out here?
Double Dipping?
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Ok, nameless is retarded, simply put..nameless_girl96 said:girl u only live once so take full advantage of it.......so pimp that shit
Don't date two at one time, thats wrong and dishonorable. You have to pick, you can't have everything in life, jesus, stop trying to get it all and go with what you feel is better. As hard as you try it'll never work out with two. Tell each of them about the other, judge their reactions and a big part of your decision could be based on if they get pissed or want to talk about it.. I hope you know enough to go from there.
Your 18....your going to do whatever the fuck you want to do anyway. Which probably means falling in love with the guy who wants you the least and trying to reform him into loving you so that you may dump him for the other guy. Or some other version of whacked out chick logic.rogue said:
fuck it, why not? just don't be pissy when one of them finds out then tells everyone in town that you are a slut.
....just rules of the game, lol
....just rules of the game, lol
rogue said:
Virgin or not does'nt matter, people like to talk and spread rumors ... I only know a handful of rumored "sluts" that are truly "sluts" ... they rest just got the rep for doing shit like ... say ... dating multiple guys. Like I already said though, fuck it, do it anyway, you should'nt care what other people think anyway unless you are anal about that sort of thing.
One girl tried to do that with 2 of my friends. One went off to basic training and as soon as he was out of town she was all over the other one. I could make a whole thread about this utter teenage dramatic bullshit. The moral of my story is, don't try that with twin brothers.
i'd go with what p99 said. judge both their reactions as a contribution to your decision. or you could just use that same idea by getting to know both of them better and asking both the same type of questions (if you're one of those questioning girls) and weighing your options according to their thoughts. the point of dating is to explore your options. you're only 18, you're not trying for a serious relationship, it's merely dating, and when you date there really is no such thing as cheating. single adults go on multiple dates all the time and it's never an issue. it's just the way things are. so don't take the dating thing seriously unless your true feelings get you into something serious with someone, in which case focus on them.
Welp, I was found out. Now of course I feel like shit for even posting about it or considering dating two guys. What makes it worse is that the guy who found out wasn't mad. Just hurt. Damn it, i can't handle hurt. Mad i can handle, hurt is just too much. So is dissapointment, which i'm sure he's also feeling right now. Sometimes I just wanna say, no guys period. *sigh* I hate feeling like this. I guess it's what I deserve though.
I hate this kind of situations. There's nothing else to say but FUCK ALWAYS AVOID THIS KIND OF SITUATIONS!!!!!
TWO DAYS? YOU ONLY PULLED OFF TWO DAYS? I think you need repremanded. 
So how exactly did you get found out since you obviously don't need any advice anymore?
So how exactly did you get found out since you obviously don't need any advice anymore?
communication is the key. he's hurt, you're hurt that he's hurt, let 'im know. tell him you didn't want to hurt his feelings cuz im sure you didn't. try to ease him out of it and go back to.. whatever you want to get back to being, be it a friend or continue to be something more. blarg.
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