I have had a best bud for many years now. He's always been uber shy around girls because it's burned him HARD in the past. I always thought he might be gay, because of things he does, and other things. Heck I used to hang out in S.F. all the time and my gaydar is pretty strong. He's been hit on several times by gay men. His dad is all super america and he's Extremely anti-gay. Anyways, I could care less if he likes men or women. I've made it VERY clear to him I only swing one way. He seems to confuse intimacy with sex because of his lack of sex life I guess, because I'm pretty sure he has a crush on me. I don't make a big deal out of it, but it's been a bit uncomfortable a few times, especially when he's drunk, which is A Lot. heh.
So what's the point? Well I'm pretty sure my friend wont push too far, and I support him to date whoever he wants, that's Not Me of course. So should I be even more plain about it? Should I just come out and say "I don't want you in a sexual way"? Should I just leave it alone and hope he finds someone else to obsess on? Anyone been there?
So what's the point? Well I'm pretty sure my friend wont push too far, and I support him to date whoever he wants, that's Not Me of course. So should I be even more plain about it? Should I just come out and say "I don't want you in a sexual way"? Should I just leave it alone and hope he finds someone else to obsess on? Anyone been there?