Wouldn't you say that friends are support, guidence, and generally there for you when you need them? HA. Apparently NOT MINE. I mean seriously, what the fuck???...
So me and my bf have been through a lot emotionally teh past few weeks, bouncing back and forth between feelings for each other and such. We're both really happy about being together presently but it seems we are the only ones...Every time I would seek for help or advice on teh issue from a, and I use the term lightly 'friend', they would just flat out lie or be really nasty about it. I've heard them say things like "he's such a loser" or "you can do better than that". I realize I shouldn't have let it effect me but its just so hard to listen to your true feelings when others around you are trying to make you believe otherwise. What they said jeopardized our relationship to the point of me breaking up with him. So I decided to go to his best friend this time and it was a good choice. He put in some good words and gave me teh advice I needed and me and my bf got back together after the weekend. We were both very satisfied with the relationship and thought others would understand...NOT! People, by people let me reitterate the fact that its my closest friends and the ppl I hang out with constantly (including his ex), started saying these things behind our backs, spreading the word without us knowing, or so they think. If they have something to say about it, why don't they just say it to my face?!?! cowards. I mean comon, GET A FUCKING CLUE!!!
Well me and him are happy together and that's all that really matters. It's just really difficult to decide beween having a good relationship with my friends or a good relationship with my bf. Obviously, I chose my boyfriend without a doubt in my mind.
Thanx for listening to me rant. It helps.
So me and my bf have been through a lot emotionally teh past few weeks, bouncing back and forth between feelings for each other and such. We're both really happy about being together presently but it seems we are the only ones...Every time I would seek for help or advice on teh issue from a, and I use the term lightly 'friend', they would just flat out lie or be really nasty about it. I've heard them say things like "he's such a loser" or "you can do better than that". I realize I shouldn't have let it effect me but its just so hard to listen to your true feelings when others around you are trying to make you believe otherwise. What they said jeopardized our relationship to the point of me breaking up with him. So I decided to go to his best friend this time and it was a good choice. He put in some good words and gave me teh advice I needed and me and my bf got back together after the weekend. We were both very satisfied with the relationship and thought others would understand...NOT! People, by people let me reitterate the fact that its my closest friends and the ppl I hang out with constantly (including his ex), started saying these things behind our backs, spreading the word without us knowing, or so they think. If they have something to say about it, why don't they just say it to my face?!?! cowards. I mean comon, GET A FUCKING CLUE!!!
Well me and him are happy together and that's all that really matters. It's just really difficult to decide beween having a good relationship with my friends or a good relationship with my bf. Obviously, I chose my boyfriend without a doubt in my mind.
Thanx for listening to me rant. It helps.
