My problem is I just can't talk to girls on the phone, I just am either really quiet when I attempt to talk on the phone with the opposite sex or I just try to avoid it as much as I can. With chatting online the "long silences" mean that the person is probably just talking to someone else, away from their keyboard or just doing something else at the moment. But when that happens on the phone it sucks. I just can't do it, I don't know how and I hate it!
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dude...first of all you need to chill the fuck out...i dont mean that in a ...sit the fuck down and chill....i mean it in a ...sit back...relax...drink a warm glass of milk and prep up....think about what you need to say....are you calling her...or she call you? chances are if theyre calling you....theyre interested...or they want your HW...either way....theyre calling you....so wait for them to start talking.....be like..."hey whats up...." ....she'll reply with something sort of the same....and since she called you..youll wait for her to initiate a topic of convo. if she doesnt just ask her hows shes been..what shes been up too....ask her how clasess are going...and then change the topic....you dont wanna talk about school over the phone with a chick...if youre of age...and you lke her...ask her if she wants to hang out...chill...go have a beer....or maybe some coffee...if you have a car..thats a plus...you dont wanna be driving around in minivans....althought when you have a gf....and youre feeling you wanna try something new...youll use the minivan....anyways back to the point....i too had problems talking to chicks on the phone...what i did was write down on a sheet of paper...improtant topics that id wanna talk about...if shes smart..and digs you...shell be able to rebute a lot of those things....or go along....dont talk about politics straight out...dont say..." so ..lets talk about campaign fininance reform..."....be like..." so...wtf is up with bush....kerry[whatever your stance is]" ....if you dont wanna hit politics.. talk about movies...or tv shows...the simpsons always makes them laugh....specially if you quote ralph wiggum.....very important ....pay attention to what theyre saying...if it bloooms into a relationship..theyll quiz you on that shit.....and BE sincere..trust me...be yourself buddy..and youll do fine....if you have any other questions PM me dude....glad to help..
If i'd be the one calling you, you wouldn't have any trouble. There's this guy i kinda like and i called him few times (he lives pretty far away so can't just go over there). But i'm always nervous when i call him and when i'm nervous, i can't stop talkin. It's really annoyin probly but i can't help it. This boy on the other hand is rather quiet on the phone (but thats probly cuz i'm babbling all the time),he says its ok that i'm nervous and stuff. Just be yourself,relax, breathe in and breathe out,and if you like the girl, just tell her that you're quite uhm nervous on the phone,or don't really know what to say...She'll understand.
Got kinda same problem over here so...its normal i guess
Got kinda same problem over here so...its normal i guess
. I've called her twice but I already knew that she was gone and I just left messages.
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