honestly im bout to give up on them.....every time i meet a nice girl she finds out about my past....if you are pretty new here and dont know about my past well here it goes.......i have a reputation of being a man whore.......i honestly lost count of how many girls i was with........well i lost count at 33 when i was 17......yes 33 i am not lying......now i am 21...and people know about my past....i went out with this one girl for 10 months(longest relationship.....before her it was a month or under) and i told her the truth she stayed with me but had trust issues....like i have trust issues with all girls....i think its cuz i've made so many girls cheat that in the back of my mind i think all girls are sluts....and the one i fall in love with will cheat on me...like what goes around comes around.....well me n her split cuz of some bullshit instigated by her mom...and now any potential girl i meet they find out about my past and instantly think that i will use them for sex....so my question is this....should i keep on tryin to have a relationship or keep on fucking around and die all alone like soo many girls told me?
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Taylor_Blade said:
Don’t give up. Eventually, you’ll find someone you feel comfortable being with enough to trust. Keep your head up. 
Fucking around is fun, but it won't be when you're older.
Fucking around is fun, but it won't be when you're older.
Don't let that shit get you down. You'll overcome your past, in time.
Just be patient. It may be hard now, but when you find someone, that loves you for who you are, and does not care who your were. Then, you'll be happier than ever before. Just remember giving up is the worst thing you can do. You'll be fine. Good luck.
Just be patient. It may be hard now, but when you find someone, that loves you for who you are, and does not care who your were. Then, you'll be happier than ever before. Just remember giving up is the worst thing you can do.
You'll be fine. Good luck.
Taylor_Blade said:
Don't let that shit get you down. You'll overcome your past, in time.
Just be patient. It may be hard now, but when you find someone, that loves you for who you are, and not care who your were. Then, you'll be happier than ever before. Just remember giving up is the worst thing you can do. You'll be fine. Good luck.
Just be patient. It may be hard now, but when you find someone, that loves you for who you are, and not care who your were. Then, you'll be happier than ever before. Just remember giving up is the worst thing you can do.
You'll be fine. Good luck.
odd i'm answering right after the above post, but oh well. i'd have to agree with the above. if a girl truely cares then its just a number, nothin more. they are abviously the wrong girls, maybe they got insecure after they hear your number, thinking they may not be good enough in bed . also maybe when opening up on pasts with potential girls, wait a bit longer for your count to come out, by then she may be head over heals for you and your count won't matter. good luck, the right girl is out there, your young so don't get too impacient, take your time.
. also maybe when opening up on pasts with potential girls, wait a bit longer for your count to come out, by then she may be head over heals for you and your count won't matter. good luck, the right girl is out there, your young so don't get too impacient, take your time.
Nymphchick said:
odd i'm answering right after the above post, but oh well. i'd have to agree with the above. if a girl truely cares then its just a number, nothin more. they are abviously the wrong girls, maybe they got insecure after they hear your number, thinking they may not be good enough in bed . also maybe when opening up on pasts with potential girls, wait a bit longer for your count to come out, by then she may be head over heals for you and your count won't matter. good luck, the right girl is out there, your young so don't get too impacient, take your time.
. also maybe when opening up on pasts with potential girls, wait a bit longer for your count to come out, by then she may be head over heals for you and your count won't matter. good luck, the right girl is out there, your young so don't get too impacient, take your time.
Nymph already told you not to be so open... which I think you know but life works against you yes?
I wouldn't give up but maybe take a breather. Just enjoy life sans woman. If you meet an awsome chick don't try and date her. Just be a cool guy to hang out with. If she finds out about your past and yet you've not even tried move one with her it may serve to prove to her that you've changed.
If you don't make any moves it's hard for someone to call you a player... if she asks about it, be honest. Don't try to hide your past but you don't have to be the guy bringing it up either.
If she comes at you with "I heard you're a player" you can say "I was but not any more." If you haven't tried to play her, or pick her up, or date her or be anything but a nice guy all she has is what she's been told.
That and maybe it's time to pack up and start a new life someplace else. Get outside the 20 mile radius. It's hard to start over if you stay in the same place.
I wouldn't give up but maybe take a breather. Just enjoy life sans woman. If you meet an awsome chick don't try and date her. Just be a cool guy to hang out with. If she finds out about your past and yet you've not even tried move one with her it may serve to prove to her that you've changed.
If you don't make any moves it's hard for someone to call you a player... if she asks about it, be honest. Don't try to hide your past but you don't have to be the guy bringing it up either.
If she comes at you with "I heard you're a player" you can say "I was but not any more." If you haven't tried to play her, or pick her up, or date her or be anything but a nice guy all she has is what she's been told.
That and maybe it's time to pack up and start a new life someplace else. Get outside the 20 mile radius. It's hard to start over if you stay in the same place.
Oh, and what I meant about the 20 mile thing is MOVE. This is a big ass country... pick your shit up and move. Find a new place with new clubs where they won't know your past.
Just hang with the chick friends you've got... you never know but eventually one might figure out you're not actually an asshole.
Just hang with the chick friends you've got... you never know but eventually one might figure out you're not actually an asshole.
I gave up on relationships on February 6, 2002. I decided on that date that after my fifth crush or so being a complete strike out, that all girls hated me, and I haven't seen anything since that's made me change my mind. I don't like admitting my feelings to a girl. I don't like the drama that surrounds it, and I don't need any more rejection. Basically what I have to say to you is be glad you've had some fun in the process. Here I am turning 18 today and I've never even kissed a girl before. I am destined to be a lonely piece of shit forever.
Some other people were saying things about packing up and moving, and I say that's not such a bad idea. Your answers may be on the open road.
Some other people were saying things about packing up and moving, and I say that's not such a bad idea. Your answers may be on the open road.
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