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Have You Been Settled For?

urbestbet

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have you ever been with someone and later have found out it was nothing more than them just settleing for you for the time being,in my current mind state i'm not gonna go into a cursing mad rant nor will i start pulling out names and cheapshots,just wanna see if this has happened to others,i'll contribute more later,i will add though im my opinon my one of many right now-its a fuckin pompus,arrogant thing to say and i don't think people consider that maybe someone is settling for them........
 

gettoyo50

The One And Only
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im not to sure what u mean, ive been used and shit like that before, but settled for?? explain...
 

slipknott

Clitpickle
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Hhmm...not sure but i think my girlfreind is kinda like that....settling for me..lol!...well who knows :rolleyes:
 

urbestbet

Clitpickle
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like someone saying they're basically with you cause they're not trying to do any better
 

Captain 151

Seeped in a dry Merlot
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i once settled for a girl because the girl that i REALLY wanted ended up going out with another guy. I was bummed out so i started dating the first girl that would let me see her naked. Heh, or somethin like that. So, what your talkin about applies to me slightly, only vice versa.
 

urbestbet

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it bothers me cause its like shittin on someone,like at least don't tell the person-hey this works cause i'm just settling for you right now...i could do better
 

Captain 151

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yea, i know what you mean. Telling the person that you settled for them is a dick move.
 

betrayed

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I've settled many times, :p of course I don't tell them..

Dude, while your trying to get the chick you want, you go for a decent one and still get action.. Then you don't come off as a dick wanting some ass when your trying to get the other girl, since your already getting some, or you should be..
 

slipknott

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Urbestbet, Just ask her if she is really serious about your relationship....and if she asks you why, tell her that you think she is just settling for you because you think that she just wants a boyfreind...best i could come up with... :rolleyes:
 

A-shardof-life

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well.....

happened to me ONCE. And it sucked. it was really strange..... lol :thumbsdn:
 
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betrayed said:
I've settled many times, :p of course I don't tell them..

Dude, while your trying to get the chick you want, you go for a decent one and still get action.. Then you don't come off as a dick wanting some ass when your trying to get the other girl, since your already getting some, or you should be..
What a lovely person you are :rolleyes:
 

MsPunK

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urbestbet said:
have you ever been with someone and later have found out it was nothing more than them just settleing for you for the time being,in my current mind state i'm not gonna go into a cursing mad rant nor will i start pulling out names and cheapshots,just wanna see if this has happened to others,i'll contribute more later,i will add though im my opinon my one of many right now-its a fuckin pompus,arrogant thing to say and i don't think people consider that maybe someone is settling for them........

yes, that happend to me *sigh* my ex who went out with me for two years decided to come back into my life for sex as he couldnt get anyone else. worst feeling ever. but relationships suck anyway

and also i agree with thepennydrops, surely you US blokes arent really like that? getting some ass?? WTF. maybe all guys are like that. come to think of it some of the relationship advice you give to eachother is awful, is it just a macho thing or do you really think that stuff?
 

betrayed

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I was half joking, anyways, I was going after a girl who I was attracted to but I kind of liked this girl who was interested in me, so I went with her until I started talking to other girl.. It's not all about "getting some".. Guys can be intimate to you know..