i have been with my boyfriend 1 year and 4 months . im not materialistic and dont demand money or to be taken out everyday. so why is it so hard for the ass to take me out once a month or give me flowers every now or then. i dont feel like i ask for much . just to be treated like a lady now and then. the major bummer of it all is i know he has money out his ass and he is quick to spend it when going out with his friends but i have to beat it out of him