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is it a bad idea to date girls you work with

mariusthegreat

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its bad ass when you take them out behind the warehouse and nail them....kinkiest place to do it....well one of ....is at work.. you could also stay after hours and nail her no the bosses desk......w00t...
note: ive never actually done that..but it would be kewl..:/
 

Seije

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i have one question to add..it may make people wonder, who knows

'if you work with your gf...would she take advantage over you and make you do some of her work so it can be easier for her to do nothing more'?

i'd keep things strictly professional as always, but i don't mind helping either...as long as it doesn't interfere with your work
no one should get in trouble
 

Pachyderm

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This is how I look at it:
How well are you at not getting uncomfortable? I'm going to say this as a serious similar action... Recently I participated in a threesome with this guy I hang out with. The next day he couldn't look me in the eyes, he was very akward about it.
I don't believe having a relationship with a coworker complicates work or life, in fact it might be more convenient. You'll enjoy working better, you'll get to know your soon to be girlfriend better, and you'll see how compatible you are. Just don't get side tracked. So if you are to break up with her at some point, make sure it's on good terms, and if you are going to have a fling, make sure you aren't going to be uncomfortable the next day about it. It all depends whether or not you're an akward-after night of sex guy.
-Kel
 

DanGeo23

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don't date.. just bang... after you bang 'er give her the "it would be unprofessional to date a co-worker" speach
 

pakdatson

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thanks for the advice guys, maybe i'll just hit it, who knows. DAN23 if i do, I'll use that speech the next day, that sounds perfect ;) pachyderm a 3 some damm, you dont mess around huh. you sound like a wild cat.
 

NaughtyGirl21

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Well I would have to say different. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I met him through work. We worked together for 2 years then work closed down to remodel so he found another job in the mean time but I went back. We are still together and feeling good.
 

magnolia

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My only hang up is that it would be odd for me to work with a guy that I dated at work if we ever broke up. But I know of a lot of ppl who met up at work and turned out just fine and are so much in love. So I say if you really like this girl, go for it. Good luck with all of that.
 

actingsmylife

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I don't think so

As long as there is no rule about it at work, i don't think that its a bad idea but you both have to not let your relationship interfer with work....ok?
 
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what if you're a doctor? then is it still bad to date people you meet at work? :)
 

Icarus

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Only if you're a gynocologist...

Dating girls at work can be bad. Espescially if you have a messy break-up...

I'd advise against dating the following people:

Co-Workers
Neighbors
People you absolutely can't avoid if neccessary

Other than that, it's a go :thumbsup:
 

pakdatson

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cool thanks guys. she really hot, thats the only reason im considering it.