Then stop.Focus28 said:Everything i do i do it wrong. I have no real fucking friends and i have never kissed a girl before and i m allread a fucking 15 years old. I dont have a fucking nice body . Im a fucking skinny boy. Ifucking hate being myself as a fucking luser.
jstager said:I'm in the exact same position as you, except I have a few real friends. I have never kissed a girl, but I have a solution that works for me:
It really makes you feel better. What I would suggest you do is to stop caring about sex at this age, everyone eventually gets laid, and not necessarily by a hooker. Your life will kick ass once you get out of high school. If you are a loser now, you are not forever, regardless of what the school environment dictates to you. There are much finer things in life.
I do not think you are a loser, by the way.
Oh, and just so you know, I have never had sex, but I am really sure I would prefer masturbation. You get to pick and choose that way...I've talked to my friends who have had sex, and they all say it is highly overrated. It's not really that fun, it's not really that different, and it's not as wonderful as society says it is. Relax, life is not all about sex.
In short, have fun with your porn surfing days before you get married.
As to the friends part? All you have to do is use the internet. We at WTF.COM are always here for you. You could also try going to forums where people who have similar interests as you hang out. You can meet lots of people there. If you play online games, make a clan, that is a good way to meet people.
All of this will come with time. I am in your position and I use alternative methods to make friends.
jstager said:I've talked to my friends who have had sex, and they all say it is highly overrated. It's not really that fun, it's not really that different, and it's not as wonderful as society says it is. Relax, life is not all about sex.
loser said:skinny boys are hot, you should try to have confidence, even though it is hard.
alot of people havent had theyre first kiss at 15, i havent.
im part of the offical loser club as well, its really not so bad. you can make alot of friends being a loser if you try, because theres alot of us out there. lol.
Unforgiven said:i try have confidence... but it's kind of hard when your nickname in school was worm cause you were tall and skinny.
morelos said:at least you were tall
of course, i'm short, hairy, ugly, and get laid many times daily (in the past it was frequently by different women on the same day), so maybe it's not all about looks.
HOWEVER, i can honestly say that while i was HAVING sex, i didn't truly appreciate it for how different it was from masturbation until i got over myself "yeah i'm great blah blah blah." once that started going away i started seeing it as a very special bonding ritual between my partner and myself. oh, that was the same time i decided to stop cheating (which was, at the time, my biggest ego stroke.. talk about thrilling).
~ dan ~