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Life or Death Situation

NaughtyGirl21

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I dont know what to do. My mom has been sick for the past few months. She has lost a lot of weight in one month, 145lb to 119lb. She has been to the doctor every week and they tell her that they dont know for sure what it is. Her stomach has been bothering her a lot. She got CT Scans and MRI's. She finnaly went to the emergency room again today and they found out that her pancreas is swollen. They said it could either be fluids in it or it could be cancer on her pancreas. We all fear that it is cancer though and wont know until Monday. I am scared because I dont want her to die and I have to go with her Monday to find out. I just dont know what to do on this. :confused:
 

Icarus

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If I were you, I'd just not change anything. Oscar Wilde said "Consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative," but it can be very comforting.

Best wishes to your mother.
 
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Don't change anything in your lives until you get the results. Help your mom out and make sure she knows that your there for her. offer support and make sure she knows you love her. I hope she gets well and she will be in my prayers tonight.
 

skylinec

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just pray...........all you can really do..........just hope for the best......i like your name
 

otepsoul

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CuddleMuffin said:
I dont know what to do. My mom has been sick for the past few months. She has lost a lot of weight in one month, 145lb to 119lb. She has been to the doctor every week and they tell her that they dont know for sure what it is. Her stomach has been bothering her a lot. She got CT Scans and MRI's. She finnaly went to the emergency room again today and they found out that her pancreas is swollen. They said it could either be fluids in it or it could be cancer on her pancreas. We all fear that it is cancer though and wont know until Monday. I am scared because I dont want her to die and I have to go with her Monday to find out. I just dont know what to do on this. :confused:
i dont know what to say. but i hope she is aight
 

dustinzgirl

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CuddleMuffin said:
I dont know what to do. My mom has been sick for the past few months. She has lost a lot of weight in one month, 145lb to 119lb. She has been to the doctor every week and they tell her that they dont know for sure what it is. Her stomach has been bothering her a lot. She got CT Scans and MRI's. She finnaly went to the emergency room again today and they found out that her pancreas is swollen. They said it could either be fluids in it or it could be cancer on her pancreas. We all fear that it is cancer though and wont know until Monday. I am scared because I dont want her to die and I have to go with her Monday to find out. I just dont know what to do on this. :confused:

I will be praying for your family also. Focus on what is within your control, like helping your mom around the house, and just letting her know that you love her and you will be there for her.
 

G's-up

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CuddleMuffin said:
I dont know what to do. My mom has been sick for the past few months. She has lost a lot of weight in one month, 145lb to 119lb. She has been to the doctor every week and they tell her that they dont know for sure what it is. Her stomach has been bothering her a lot. She got CT Scans and MRI's. She finnaly went to the emergency room again today and they found out that her pancreas is swollen. They said it could either be fluids in it or it could be cancer on her pancreas. We all fear that it is cancer though and wont know until Monday. I am scared because I dont want her to die and I have to go with her Monday to find out. I just dont know what to do on this. :confused:

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong and just love each other right now. :)
 

The_DEAL

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G's-up said:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong and just love each other right now. :)
what she said
 

Descent

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I'll give you my Atheist prayer...meaning that I wish you the best of luck.

I have been in a position like yours. Six months ago my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer...fortunately it was in the early stages and she has been cured. Originally my dad was freaked because before the biopsy results came in, it could be a calcium buildup or a tumor, so he went against my mom's wishes and talked to my brother and me about it. My mom didn't care though, she knew that my dad was scared for her and needed someone to talk to about it.
 

G's-up

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CuddleMuffin said:
I dont know what to do. My mom has been sick for the past few months. She has lost a lot of weight in one month, 145lb to 119lb. She has been to the doctor every week and they tell her that they dont know for sure what it is. Her stomach has been bothering her a lot. She got CT Scans and MRI's. She finnaly went to the emergency room again today and they found out that her pancreas is swollen. They said it could either be fluids in it or it could be cancer on her pancreas. We all fear that it is cancer though and wont know until Monday. I am scared because I dont want her to die and I have to go with her Monday to find out. I just dont know what to do on this. :confused:

Now do you see how respectful people were to you in this thread? Nobody tried to correct your spelling they just offered you support. This is called class...... :)
 

NaughtyGirl21

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G's-up said:
Now do you see how respectful people were to you in this thread? Nobody tried to correct your spelling they just offered you support. This is called class...... :)
Shut up and :mfinger: G's-up, I really dont care what you got to say.
 

G's-up

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CuddleMuffin said:
Shut up and :mfinger: G's-up, I really dont care what you got to say.

Even after that wonderful display of class I still feel this way for you and your family.......


G's-up said:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong and just love each other right now. :)
~Peace~ :)