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chanx843

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well lets start i think i have this huge crush on this guy from work but the problem is i'm married yup i know i don't know what to do. i say to myself okay don't let this guy sweep you away today, but what happens he comes to talk to me and i just can't help it i feel bad cuz my husband i think knows something is wrong i just wish i could let this guy know but i can't i love my husband but i think i'm hurting him i don't know i hate this. oh yeah and if i decide to not talk to him or ignore him what happens his name appears in work that i'm doing street names and of course he comes over what shoudl i do?:rolleyes:
 

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There's a local band called Boy on Boy. They're not allowed to play at school anymore.
 

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chanx843 said:
well lets start i think i have this huge crush on this guy from work but the problem is i'm married yup i know i don't know what to do. i say to myself okay don't let this guy sweep you away today, but what happens he comes to talk to me and i just can't help it i feel bad cuz my husband i think knows something is wrong i just wish i could let this guy know but i can't i love my husband but i think i'm hurting him i don't know i hate this. oh yeah and if i decide to not talk to him or ignore him what happens his name appears in work that i'm doing street names and of course he comes over what shoudl i do?:rolleyes:
First all a suggestion "punctuation" would have made my life a great deal easier reading your post.

I think its time to speak to your husband (not necessarily about this guy), what is happening is a symptom of a problem that already exists in your marriage. The infatuation with this work colleague may just be a projection of this problem. If things were okay, you may not be attracted to him.

Lets face it if eveything was okay at home, you wouldnt have give this guy a second look. :)
 

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lady victoria said:
First all a suggestion "punctuation" would have made my life a great deal easier reading your post.

I think its time to speak to your husband (not necessarily about this guy), what is happening is a symptom of a problem that already exists in your marriage. The infatuation with this work colleague may just be a projection of this problem. If things were okay, you may not be attracted to him.

Lets face it if eveything was okay at home, you wouldnt have give this guy a second look. :)
I absolutely agree. I've been with my wife for over two years, and we married just last june. Ever since I met her, I have not had eyes for any other woman AT ALL. Don't get me wrong, I love porn and cute girls, but my wife and I know those things are natural and only become a problem when they move from fantasy to reality. Besides, my wife knows she is plenty for me, and that, where reality is concerned, she is the only woman I will ever want.
What is happening here is that you are allowing yourself to fantasize about a person, while at the same time wanting to move that into reality. Like Lady Vic said, if things were okay between you and your husband, this wouldn't be an issue.
 
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but i can't i love my husband
I definitely agree with the last posts. The best advise I can offer you is to if you don’t love him is to simply leave him now and worry about the new relationship later. I am also married and love my wife dearly. I believe that if you stopped loving your husband than you should not waste his, yours, or your children’s(if you have any) time with your own selfishness. If you were my wife I would definitely want you to tell me as im sure you owe your husband that. Or at least take a break from each other. This way you will be able realize weather you really do love him or not. Or seek counseling. Theres lots of options.

AND WELCOME FUCKER!
 

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I definitely agree with the last posts. The best advise I can offer you is to if you don’t love him is to simply leave him now and worry about the new relationship later. I am also married and love my wife dearly. I believe that if you stopped loving your husband than you should not waste his, yours, or your children’s(if you have any) time with your own selfishness. If you were my wife I would definitely want you to tell me as im sure you owe your husband that. Or at least take a break from each other. This way you will be able realize weather you really do love him or not. Or seek counseling. Theres lots of options.

AND WELCOME FUCKER!
not that im married but i disagree with rb on some points. there must be a reason you married that person.Think of all the good times,talk to your husband. I think getting a divorce because of that is rreally stupid. I can say is because thats what happened with my parents, and im glad to say their fucking regretting that now :thumbsup: . Love shouldnt be something that you can give to anyone and everyone at the slighteset whim of a good body.
Do you even know this guy from work enough that you would leave your husband for him?
Talk to your husband, not about this but their must be some lack of passion or cuddling( i think men just like the sex part). This problem arose between me and my girlfriend, so we decided we would stop talking for 1 week(NOT A BREAK, JUST NO TALKING ON PHONE ETC.)and during that time i understood how much i love her and how much she means to me.
Dont be hasty with things like these because these can alter your lives forever.
 

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to all of you guys thanks. I know i love my hubby alot and this guy is just a stupid crush, i need to work things out with my hubby and just fuck like crazy and fuck like crazy again okay thanks I will listen to all of your advice
thanks
 
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Is it just me, or does this problem seem totally fake?

just fuck like crazy and fuck like crazy again
Please... if this post was genuine, would you really believe that was the lady's solution? lol
 

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well peoplae fucki like crazy even if they arent in love
you dont have to love to fuck, i mean look, how does mr.president have a child?
 

chanx843

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I WAS JUST KIDDING ABOUT THE FUCK PART. SERIOUSLY I WILL TAKE ALL YOUR GOOD ADVICE I'VE BEEN WITH MY HUBBY FOR SO LONG AND THIS ISN'T WORTH IT. LIKE I SAID I LOVE HIM I CAN'T IMAGINE MY LIFE WITHOUT HIM. I HAVE TALK TO HIM AND HE SEES HE HAS SLACK ON BEING ROMANTIC AND MAKING LOVE, AND CUDDLING. HE HAS NOTICE AND I HAVE TALK TO HIM ALOT ABOUT IT. HONESTLY THANK U GUYS FOR YOUR ADVICE I NEEDED SOMEONE TO TALK TO ME AND GET THIS THROUGH MY HEAD AND I'M JUST BEING STUPID REALLY I WILL TRY MY BEST TO WORK THINGS OUT WITH HIM. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I EVER FELT LIKE THIS AND NO CRUSH IS GOING TO BREAK OUR RELATIONSHIP. PLUS WE ARE GOING ON VACATION SOON SO I KNOW THAT WILL HELP NO CELL PHONES NO FAMILY OH IT'S GOING TO BE GREAT! THANKS :p
 

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lady victoria said:
Lets face it if eveything was okay at home, you wouldnt have give this guy a second look. :)
I agree for the most part, but some women confuse lust with love and will always be this way. Especially if they are young.

Married out of lust, and lusts after someone else. No love what so ever.
 
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i look at lust as a part of life. we are mammals, and we weren't supposed to be with the same person forever. in the gene pool we are supposed to be hunting out the ideal mate with the best genes, survival of the fitest. i find that when your with someone for a long time, that ya, everything become routine, familiar, maybe in ones eyes a bit boring. so naturally the grass looks greener on the other side, but from what i can tell i usually never is.
so i say, go ahead take a peek, after all your only human, we all peek, just don't touch or act out on that itch, cause the grass most likely isen't greener.
 
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