OOOOOOOOOK, well let me explain this whole fucked up circle to you guys. I am currently dating a girl a little ways away from me, its not long distance but it almost feels like it (shes really hot too ) Anyways I really have liked this other girl for a LONG time and I initiated contact a long time ago when we were still in the school year and we've been pretty good friends, very compatible and we agree on so much and have a lot of the same interests. Thats when this guy comes into play, he and this girl have been dating for awhile, and he cheated on her, yet she goes back to him. She herself admitted to me that she likes me yet she likes him too. Yet, I haven't cheated on her, I've treated her nothing short of a princess (not to the point of being obsessive but just very nice and all that) he has been a total jackass and I really don't understand her reasoning. His excuse for cheating on her was he was drunk, I found out later that he had half a shot of like, tequila or something like that, basically something that would NOT get you drunk. She was just over at my house last night and we got along great and whenever hes around shes different and awkward and I just feeel like were better together. She doesn't seem to see it that way, one excuse I'm pretty sure she has is one of her friends likes me, and I'm pretty sure this is like one of her best friends, which sucks because its holding her back because she wouldn't want to hurt anyone. I wish there was some way I could delete this other guy from the picture. But I don't anyone saying I should just kill him, I need some serious advice as this is with a girl I could see myself staying with for a long time.