if you dont try to get one using 'game' than its not hard at all...cause your not really trying...your not acting, your just being you. For some reason, a lot of women really like it when you dont try too hard...or at all, in some cases. Especially when the girl is really hot...she has been hit on most of her life...and when i guy talks to her like she was just an other person and not a sexy mofo..they simply love it. Of course flirtation is good, but its always best gauge the subtlety of your flirtation depending on the hottness of the girl. The hotter she is, the more subtle you make it. But then again, dont get all carried away with "trying" to flirt right and all of that nonsense. In fact, just be you...fuck it. heh, This was a lot harder to explain than i thought it was going to be...forget what i just said...smoke some weed.