Ok i have known a guy and been friends with him for a long time. Usually with no problems.
Lately however i have felt like he has been using me. I always do things for most people without a second thought. I mean for friends all the time. I never even ask for things in return. But a day or 2 ago i was at another friends house which is also a friend of his. While i was at his house the first friend asked me if i could give the guy that i was at the house of a ride over to my first friend (dan) house. I told him that i didnt know i mean it was compleatly in the wrong direction. I had to litterally go past my house to get to his.
Dan continued to bug me until i finally said yes ill do it. So he stopped bugging me about it.
Today i was bored and i wanted to go to the movies. I thought i could go with both of them. So i called and asked. He said that he had to wait for his dad to get home in a half hour to ask. So after a hour went by i called and asked him if he could go he said yes but he didnt want to. I was so pissed that he just blew me off.
But i once again thought w/e ill go with someone else.
Later tonight (like 10 min ago) he catches me on AIM and asks how the movie was...
This kinda pissed me off and plus i was dealing with another issue of another stupid friend that i think i have posted on here before but w/e. I was not in the mood to deal with a friend that i was feeling like was using me.
So i told him i was busy and kinda mad at him for everything and that i didnt really want to talk to him right now.
He just said fine w/e, im not your dog and signed right off.
I was like What the FUCK!?!?!
Maybe it was just me but this was the last straw. it takes alot to piss me off. So i dont know if it was just me..
Any ideas....?
Lately however i have felt like he has been using me. I always do things for most people without a second thought. I mean for friends all the time. I never even ask for things in return. But a day or 2 ago i was at another friends house which is also a friend of his. While i was at his house the first friend asked me if i could give the guy that i was at the house of a ride over to my first friend (dan) house. I told him that i didnt know i mean it was compleatly in the wrong direction. I had to litterally go past my house to get to his.
Dan continued to bug me until i finally said yes ill do it. So he stopped bugging me about it.
Today i was bored and i wanted to go to the movies. I thought i could go with both of them. So i called and asked. He said that he had to wait for his dad to get home in a half hour to ask. So after a hour went by i called and asked him if he could go he said yes but he didnt want to. I was so pissed that he just blew me off.
But i once again thought w/e ill go with someone else.
Later tonight (like 10 min ago) he catches me on AIM and asks how the movie was...
This kinda pissed me off and plus i was dealing with another issue of another stupid friend that i think i have posted on here before but w/e. I was not in the mood to deal with a friend that i was feeling like was using me.
So i told him i was busy and kinda mad at him for everything and that i didnt really want to talk to him right now.
He just said fine w/e, im not your dog and signed right off.
I was like What the FUCK!?!?!
Maybe it was just me but this was the last straw. it takes alot to piss me off. So i dont know if it was just me..
Any ideas....?
