OK, first of all, being betrayed blows a big one. And so doesn't dealing with people who are, sorry to say, stupid at times. The friend, or rather ex-friend of which I speak has always been a nitwit, believing things that weren't true, fabricating and stretching the truth, manipulating others for his own gain and in all cases their loss, and did I mention he went through high school and got out with a 1.3 GPA? Yes, that stupid. And he is currently taking a year off from school before he goes to college, although I'm convinced he won't go. And for more backup, he and I belong to the same roleplaying message board. Anywho, he made a mature thread which is against that server's ToS. So, I told him about it and he called me a fag, doomed my relationship and a lot of other bullshit that I wanted to throw him into a brickwall. I don't care who you are or who you're talking to, you don't call people fags, esepcailly after you've been their friend for years. I don't know where this came from...any ideas on how to deal with this, or any comments on what you think of him based on what I've told you, or anything you want to know, go ahead and reply...I need help here dammit.