No, seriously. I'm into
erotica. I'm not into the ball gag rope 'em down scene. I'm into silk scarf blindfolds, velcro tethers, candles, music, toy's, food.
It's all about control, sensory deprivation, mood, mystery and scenario. When I was 17 y/o, a 24 y/o chick and the movie
9½ Weeks inspired me.