Yeah my dad has cancer and will not be able to eat for a month because it's in his espophagus. He will also be doing chemo for 6 weeks because the tumor is so big it has already spread to his liver. He an ungodly amount of spots including a rather large on in his right lobe of the liver.
My dad has a lot of friends and just to watch him call all of them and tell him was extremely trying. He started taking anxiety medication because I think he thinks he is waiting to die. But my mom, my brother and I try to act normal as if it is nothing big, like he will get through this. We went to California adventures, and my mom is taking him to his favorite vinyard to meet his favorite wine maker. We're doing as much as we can with him now, but staying strong as we possibly can.
Everyone is saying it, so I'll reiterate: Stay by his side when he really needs to feel that normalcy he's lacking. Do normal guy things, go out to a concert go to a bar or what ever you guys do while he still has enough energy to do so. I hope he beats this thing and I hope you stay strong. Goodluck.