Never do favors

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My mom is a property manager (aka landlord). She comes to me and says that she has to move these people into a house, and the person that usually cleans the houses for her has just doubled her rates. So my mom asks me to go and do it. they move in Monday. So i have to clean over the weekend. After I worked long hours the entire week. I figure, okay. I was a shit for my teenage years. Maybe I could do her this favor. So I spend all fucking weekend climbing up and down ladders, scrubbing everything in sight (because the prior tenants were fucking pigs), busting my ass to get this house clean in 2 days. And late sunday afternoon, my mom comes by to see how it's going. and this is what she fucking says.

Good job. Not as good as I would have done though.

Then clean it your damn self! I am so tired of my mother's backhanded compliments that I could puke. Passive aggressive fucking bullshit. I spend my whole weekend busting my ass doing her a favor, and she couldn't just say thank you. Now I remember why I was such a shit during my teen years. I had a lot of fucking help.

Bloody Bollocksing Fuck.

Now I need more whiskey. A lot more whiskey.

 

[gurlgonewild]

ha ha don't yah just hate ungrateful people? yeah, family is like that sometimes. i feel your pain!

 

[Easty]

maybe she was joking. or she's just pushing you to work harder thinkin it will benefit you later on in life

 

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maybe she was joking. or she's just pushing you to work harder thinkin it will benefit you later on in life

if this was a singular incident, I might think that. However, this is just another example in a long line of me not being able to live up to her unrealistic expectations. Thankfully - these days I know that they are unrealistic, and I don't hate myself when I don't live up to them.

 

[bnccoder]

I know the feeling too. You bust your ass doing something that you didn't have to do and then they either don't notice or bitch about the result. To all those people I would like to give a big "GO FUCK YOURSELF".

 

[TwisT]

My mom is a property manager (aka landlord). She comes to me and says that she has to move these people into a house, and the person that usually cleans the houses for her has just doubled her rates. So my mom asks me to go and do it. they move in Monday. So i have to clean over the weekend. After I worked long hours the entire week. I figure, okay. I was a shit for my teenage years. Maybe I could do her this favor. So I spend all fucking weekend climbing up and down ladders, scrubbing everything in sight (because the prior tenants were fucking pigs), busting my ass to get this house clean in 2 days. And late sunday afternoon, my mom comes by to see how it's going. and this is what she fucking says.

Good job. Not as good as I would have done though.

Then clean it your damn self! I am so tired of my mother's backhanded compliments that I could puke. Passive aggressive fucking bullshit. I spend my whole weekend busting my ass doing her a favor, and she couldn't just say thank you. Now I remember why I was such a shit during my teen years. I had a lot of fucking help.

Bloody Bollocksing Fuck.

Now I need more whiskey. A lot more whiskey.

Ouch!! Momma a rude ole biatch?

 

[Easty]

if this was a singular incident, I might think that. However, this is just another example in a long line of me not being able to live up to her unrealistic expectations. Thankfully - these days I know that they are unrealistic, and I don't hate myself when I don't live up to them.

eek, yeah that's fuckin anal. talk to her, if she can't understand at all, tell her to fuck off

 

[DIZNUTS]

I know the feeling too. You bust your ass doing something that you didn't have to do and then they either don't notice or bitch about the result. To all those people I would like to give a big "GO FUCK YOURSELF".

amen