First I would like to say, forgive me for being a complete loser and asking this on a forum. But I can't go to any of my friends about this, because I know what they would say.
Current Girlfriend:
New Girl:
Its not that I don't like my girlfriend, but we don't really have anything new to talk about ever, its just always hows your day, and our weekends consist of hanging out at each other's houses, or going to a movie. I know all relationships get like this eventually, but I'm only in highschool, and I have been single a total of 5 months since 8th grade.
Do you think I should dump my girlfriend and give this new girl a try?
Or should I dump my girlfriend and just remain single for a while?
Or should I just stick with the relationship I'm in?
Cheating is not an option because I don't do that, even though it would be the easiest thing to do....
I know I can't ask you to decide for me, I'm just asking what you would do given this situation, and tell me if I'm being a dumbass or not.
Current Girlfriend:
- We have had a pretty boring, easy going, relationship.
- She is probably the nicest girl I have ever met.
- Doesn't have to much in common with me, except for we are both really nice, and she likes my favorite band.
- I'm going to go to college near by, but she is not going to.
- I don't see how our relationship will last through college.
New Girl:
- She is a freshman, who seems mature for her age, with a little bit of blonde syndrome.
- She was voted by my friends and I the hottest freshman this year.
- We have only been talking, and hangin out(as friends) for a couple of days but according to her friends they say that she has had the hugest crush on me since the beggining of track season.
- She is "my friend's girl" in the sense that he likes her and they hang out, but she told me that she doesn't think she actually likes him.
- She is so energetic and fun to be around
Its not that I don't like my girlfriend, but we don't really have anything new to talk about ever, its just always hows your day, and our weekends consist of hanging out at each other's houses, or going to a movie. I know all relationships get like this eventually, but I'm only in highschool, and I have been single a total of 5 months since 8th grade.
Do you think I should dump my girlfriend and give this new girl a try?
Or should I dump my girlfriend and just remain single for a while?
Or should I just stick with the relationship I'm in?
Cheating is not an option because I don't do that, even though it would be the easiest thing to do....
I know I can't ask you to decide for me, I'm just asking what you would do given this situation, and tell me if I'm being a dumbass or not.