okay, so you probably don't care, but here's the deal.
so i met this guy like right before valentine's day. he's a hospitalman in the navy, and a real sweetheart.
he and i hung out for 3 days straight, and had the best time of our lives. okay, and yes, we ended up sleeping together. it was awesome, by the way, but whatever, that's not the point.
so he talked to me about the whole situation, and suddenly he ends up getting shipped off to afghanistan until the middle of august. we've kept in touch, and i'd really like a relationship with him, but in the mean time, i'm left here at home by myself...
and then i start this new job. i meet this absolutely wonderful guy, and he and i start hanging out. the first couple of times we hung out, i told this guy that i wanted to wait for this other guy to come back and see how things would go with him before i got involved with anyone else.
and then it happened. we got caught up in the moment and we ended up sleeping together, too. :naughty: he and i tried to call it quits, but we're so compatible that it's almost sickening. he and i have been together since then. i mean, we're not OFFICIALLY together, but we hang out all the time and i must admit that the sex is wonderful... but i just love hanging out with him and spending time with him. it doesn't really even matter to me all that much if we were sleeping together or not.
but then this leaves me in a bind. i've still been writing this guy that's overseas. i really do like him, and if he were here, things might be different. he wants to be with me once he comes home, and i just don't know what to do.
should i continue to be with this guy that's here with me now? or should i call it off and wait for this other guy?
i've grown really close to the guy that i'm with here. i really have feelings for him, and i don't want to call it off. i want to be with him. but at the same time, a part of me feels like it needs to know if things would have ever worked out with this other guy.
so what do you think i should do? am i cheating on the guy in afghanistan even though we only spent 3 days together? we never said that we were dating, and so i don't mean it like that... it's just that he's over there with nobody, writing his heart away to me in letters. and i'm over here perfectly happy with someone else... :
: this sucks!!!
so i met this guy like right before valentine's day. he's a hospitalman in the navy, and a real sweetheart.
he and i hung out for 3 days straight, and had the best time of our lives. okay, and yes, we ended up sleeping together. it was awesome, by the way, but whatever, that's not the point. so he talked to me about the whole situation, and suddenly he ends up getting shipped off to afghanistan until the middle of august. we've kept in touch, and i'd really like a relationship with him, but in the mean time, i'm left here at home by myself...
and then i start this new job. i meet this absolutely wonderful guy, and he and i start hanging out. the first couple of times we hung out, i told this guy that i wanted to wait for this other guy to come back and see how things would go with him before i got involved with anyone else.
and then it happened. we got caught up in the moment and we ended up sleeping together, too. :naughty: he and i tried to call it quits, but we're so compatible that it's almost sickening. he and i have been together since then. i mean, we're not OFFICIALLY together, but we hang out all the time and i must admit that the sex is wonderful... but i just love hanging out with him and spending time with him. it doesn't really even matter to me all that much if we were sleeping together or not.
but then this leaves me in a bind. i've still been writing this guy that's overseas. i really do like him, and if he were here, things might be different. he wants to be with me once he comes home, and i just don't know what to do.
should i continue to be with this guy that's here with me now? or should i call it off and wait for this other guy?
i've grown really close to the guy that i'm with here. i really have feelings for him, and i don't want to call it off. i want to be with him. but at the same time, a part of me feels like it needs to know if things would have ever worked out with this other guy. so what do you think i should do? am i cheating on the guy in afghanistan even though we only spent 3 days together? we never said that we were dating, and so i don't mean it like that... it's just that he's over there with nobody, writing his heart away to me in letters. and i'm over here perfectly happy with someone else... :
: this sucks!!!
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Really it just comes down to how much you love the guy in Afgahnistan. If you really love him enough to wait till August and don't do anything with any other guy then go for it. But if I was in your situation I'd go for the guy that you just recently met. Long distance relationships do not work out, period. Your just waiting for something that won't happen for a long time. But in the mean time your not having a very good time. Get with the guy you just met, and when the other guy comes back from Afgahnistan you can take it from there.
