i've had nothing but unsafe sex almost my entire sexually active life. it's stupid, but it is incredibly gratifying in many ways.
be warned, though: pre-marital sex can lead to post-coital attachment which is very unhealthy.
not to mention unwanted babies. sadly to say i've been through the painful ride of unexpected, unwanted pregnancy and subsequent abortion, and hope nobody ever has to go through either of those experiences. before you attack me for my (absolutely agreed) sexual stupidity, understand my girlfriend at the time was taking the birth control pill incorrectly and that's what resulted in the pregnancy in the first place.
since then i've practiced careful rhythm and i've had a lot of good luck.
i respect and value the folks who are saving themselves for marriage: no matter how you look at it, you will have the opportunity to give your one real life-partner something nobody else has ever had: yourself.
i respect and value the folks who are having pre-marital sex: we get to know a lot more about ourselves through the process, and not just sexually / physically.
~ dan ~