okay.... umm.... it dont matter to me... It can put you in a bad place in life... but sometimes you just get ther erge.. so i am not saying i am against it and i am not saying i am for it... i dont know what i am for....
Heh, way to leave the door open.
I guess it depends on the person. Let's face it premarital sex ia here and it's not going away. Just make sure you're ready for it. take all the precautions against STD's yada, yada, yada.
If two people love eachother it's a beautiful thing. And if two people wanna "get it on" it's really hot and sweaty, rolling around in oil and whiped cream.
i've had nothing but unsafe sex almost my entire sexually active life. it's stupid, but it is incredibly gratifying in many ways.
be warned, though: pre-marital sex can lead to post-coital attachment which is very unhealthy.
not to mention unwanted babies. sadly to say i've been through the painful ride of unexpected, unwanted pregnancy and subsequent abortion, and hope nobody ever has to go through either of those experiences. before you attack me for my (absolutely agreed) sexual stupidity, understand my girlfriend at the time was taking the birth control pill incorrectly and that's what resulted in the pregnancy in the first place.
since then i've practiced careful rhythm and i've had a lot of good luck.
i respect and value the folks who are saving themselves for marriage: no matter how you look at it, you will have the opportunity to give your one real life-partner something nobody else has ever had: yourself.
i respect and value the folks who are having pre-marital sex: we get to know a lot more about ourselves through the process, and not just sexually / physically.
Pre-marital sex is the same as marital sex. Its sex. It's just as troublesome as it is fun. You don't want to do it thats fine. But don't say its wrong just because you disagree with it. It's only as wrong as you make it. Just do what I do...charm em get em drunk sleep with em and give them the wrong phone number. Just make the phone number close to what it actualy is so you can lie about it being a mistake if you ever see them again. Oh yeah...and NEVER take her back to your place because then she knows where you live...thats bad. They can't find you it doesn't matter how attached they are...
One good thing Kit. When he finishes his tour, he'll come home to you all pent-up. You'll be the target in the sight of his heat seeking moisture missile, and he won't miss.
Yes, he'll come home and you'll have someone to "Mow the lawn".
"Do things around the house"
I could keep going with the plays on words, but you get the idea.