I've known this girl for about 6 months, we've just been friends and (after her breaking up with her bf) have messed around a lil, only kissed a couple times. She seems interested in me and the only reason I can think of that we haven't started dating is cause she had a bf and may not be over him yet - they dated almost 9 months .. which may not seem like a long time but for highschool it is. She'll come over and lay with me on the couch watchin movies and just cuddling which makes me at least think she's interested but she claims she only wants to be friends. Her interested or not, people have given me advice not to get further involved w/ her cause either A: I'm the rebound guy and will get used or B: I'm "insurance" like if she doesn't have a bf at the time and is bored I'll always go over there and hang out ... which is true cause I'm interested in her and she knows it .. in other words - I'll get used, but I don't want to believe either.
Look I'm not looking for sympathy or anything but if you have any advice it's much appreciated.
Look I'm not looking for sympathy or anything but if you have any advice it's much appreciated.