It is not to say that I do not love our sex, I do, its fun and for the most part he is very good at what he is willing to do…but we have our differences. The starkest is of course my love of pain and all together being humiliated by lovers. He absolutely refuses to leave any mark, he will not tie me up, he will not take part in Irrumatio (Face fucking) he refuses to hit, gag, cut me, masturbate with me or bukakke (Which he has explained to me about the bukakke), and so much more indeed. It is a bit of domming from the bottom on my part, I mean, honestly, I’ve practically begged for him to be rough but each time he refuses to be so with me. I am not going to force his hand, but I am not objecting to coaxing him, any suggestions?