from what i know you seem pretty cool, though i haven't read a lot from you quite yet.
in any case, i went without a b/f my whole life until this summer. though i was foolin around, i guess you could say, with this guy since a year or two ago. but it never went into a relationship.. namely cuz he had a g/f at the time, and he's my best friend's brother so it woulda been awkward so it was this big secret type thing. yes, scandalous isn't it. but anyways, kinda off topic there..
girls are... fucked.. as stated in many posts before, i'm not a fan.. even though i am a girl myself. majority of women 'just want to be friends!' ya know they whine and whine wishing there was at least ONE nice guy out there, and the one's they daydream about to be the perfect guy, they end up just making them friends. which can blow quite a bit of ass.
i say don't go trying to jump on any girl you come across that you think might be interesting, if they say no or whatever, that's their problem. the girl who sees that something that's in you will come along soon enough, and it'll be hella worth the wait!
of course if you're just looking for some ass, parties that involve alcohol and/or recreational pharmeceuticals is a good place to start *nods knowingly*. >=D hehehe.