alright can somebody tell me if this is not fucked up or what. last weekend me and my girl got into an arguement because she has this friend that just so happens to be a guy who pushes the limits. Even though he says he doesn't want to be with her, he does things like, for example, she was changing clothes in the closet and he walks over there and opens the door on her. luckily she had already finished changing but is that not fucked up. but whats worse is that she said "ha its too late, i already finished" instead of something like "wtf are you doing." then later on she was like he was just playing around and i was like hmmm bullshit. apparently my girl is one of those that would care if someone came up behind her and grabbed her. However, myself on the other hand have a very big problem with that, I won't even ask a question. ill just get up and woop an ass. I didn't do that though because he is her friend, probably her best friend so I just left and chilled out. What do you think i could do to get her to be a little more serious with other people and doing shit like that? I was thinking about just telling her to set up some limits with this guy but i dunno.