Pussy and Trueness

[TooSmartGuile]

I rode to the store with 3 other friends and one of them mentions California, which I consider a pussy state. However, when I call it so, one of my friends tells me she doesn't like the word pussy, since its offensive to her. I say okay and, thankfully, didn't apologize. I forget about her aversion to pussy and we discuss more on California, which I say pussy again. She gets upset and I challenge her on why pussy is offensive which she tells me it's a derogatory for vagina, and since women have 'em, it suggests pussies are women. Now I feel pressured to censor myself, but I don't want to. I want to be more true to myself and just say pussy in front of who ever I feel like.

Should I be more sensitive or more true?

 

[MaxPower]

This is what I mean. Yet you're ok with Trump?

 

[Moleskine]

I rode to the store with 3 other friends and one of them mentions California, which I consider a pussy state. However, when I call it so, one of my friends tells me she doesn't like the word pussy, since its offensive to her. I say okay and, thankfully, didn't apologize. I forget about her aversion to pussy and we discuss more on California, which I say pussy again. She gets upset and I challenge her on why pussy is offensive which she tells me it's a derogatory for vagina, and since women have 'em, it suggests pussies are women. Now I feel pressured to censor myself, but I don't want to. I want to be more true to myself and just say pussy in front of who ever I feel like.

Should I be more sensitive or more true?

Depends. Do you care about her feelings enough to preserve them? Or do one or more of your world views prevent you from sheltering her from her perceived abuses? If you can find a way to honestly justify your discontinued use of the word 'pussy' as an insult, then this is a null issue though.

 

[CoprophagousCop]

Family values, maybe. But not "morality" in the way the left views morality. Trump didn't lie about his war crimes. He wasn't a filthy lawyer who laughed about locking up rapists. He wasn't affiliated with Podesta the Molesta or Bill the Rapist. Jeffrey Epstein. Lynn Forester de Rothschild. He was just a businessman, who spoke frankly, and isn't so knee-deep in the quagmire of the White House that he actually inspires trust in some of us.

I mean, not me, personally. But relative to these other fuckheads? Yes.

If you understood the direction in which America was going, you wouldn't be amazed. Nobody trusted Shillary, not even her own demographic (angery feminist women and she-males). Democrats did this to themselves. They chose the war criminal/frigid bitch. And why? Because they're more interested in fucking identity politics than creating jobs.

This is what is known as fake news.

You accuse Hillary Clinton of war crimes because she originally told the press that the terrorist attack in Benghazi was a protest as there was a protest in Cairo the same day. Had she said it was a terrorist attack from the get-go, nothing would have changed. The attack had already happened. You accuse her of war crimes because the embassy in Benghazi was vulnerable to attack. All embassies are vulnerable to attack. These are not war crimes. Lying about the reason to go to war (weapons of mass destruction, remember them?) is a war crime. And yes, she voted for the war with Iraq because she, like many, did not believe the George W. Bush administration was lying at first.
Get educated:

You accuse Hillary Clinton of laughing about locking up rapists (or rather, preventing one from being locked up), but she was really laughing at the absurdity of the case, how the key piece of evidence was lost, how a so-called lie-detector said her client was innocent, how the judge wanted to speak to the defendant without her, his counsel, being present. She did not laugh at the victim. She did not even want the case, but she was appointed to it so she made every effort to do her job.
Get educated:

You blame Hillary Clinton for her husband's infidelities. She was a victim in those cases. She is not to blame just because she stood by her husband and did not divorce him. "Podesta the Molester" kind of rhymes, but there is nothing with him regarding illegal sex acts. Again, fake news. He was Hillary's campaign chairman whose e-mail account was hacked because incompetent members of his staff responded to a phishing scam by Russian hackers. The biggest thing we learned from that was Hillary sometimes makes paid speeches and she tailors her speeches to concur with her audience. If you want to learn about Hillary's other "scandals" watch this video:
Get educated and entertained:

Finally, coming out of a deep recession during the George W. Bush presidency, America was heading in a positive direction job-creation-wise. Creating more coal jobs (a relatively small industry that has become highly mechanized and replaced with natural gas) will not do much good. America needs more jobs in renewable energy, something Hillary supported, not Trump. You think nobody trusted Hillary, but people trust Trump far less.



OK, back on topic:

 

[Moleskine]

This is what is known as fake news.

You accuse Hillary Clinton of war crimes because she originally told the press that the terrorist attack in Benghazi was a protest as there was a protest in Cairo the same day. Had she said it was a terrorist attack from the get-go, nothing would have changed. The attack had already happened. You accuse her of war crimes because the embassy in Benghazi was vulnerable to attack. All embassies are vulnerable to attack. These are not war crimes. Lying about the reason to go to war (weapons of mass destruction, remember them?) is a war crime. And yes, she voted for the war with Iraq because she, like many, did not believe the George W. Bush administration was lying at first.
Get educated:

You accuse Hillary Clinton of laughing about locking up rapists (or rather, preventing one from being locked up), but she was really laughing at the absurdity of the case, how the key piece of evidence was lost, how a so-called lie-detector said her client was innocent, how the judge wanted to speak to the defendant without her, his counsel, being present. She did not laugh at the victim. She did not even want the case, but she was appointed to it so she made every effort to do her job.
Get educated:

You blame Hillary Clinton for her husband's infidelities. She was a victim in those cases. She is not to blame just because she stood by her husband and did not divorce him. "Podesta the Molester" kind of rhymes, but there is nothing with him regarding illegal sex acts. Again, fake news. He was Hillary's campaign chairman whose e-mail account was hacked because incompetent members of his staff responded to a phishing scam by Russian hackers. The biggest thing we learned from that was Hillary sometimes makes paid speeches and she tailors her speeches to concur with her audience. If you want to learn about Hillary's other "scandals" watch this video:
Get educated and entertained:

Finally, coming out of a deep recession during the George W. Bush presidency, America was heading in a positive direction job-creation-wise. Creating more coal jobs (a relatively small industry that has become highly mechanized and replaced with natural gas) will not do much good. America needs more jobs in renewable energy, something Hillary supported, not Trump. You think nobody trusted Hillary, but people trust Trump far less.



OK, back on topic:

Jesus Christ you argue like my dad, long windedly and quoting Youtube unironically.

 

[Jugular]

This is what is known as fake news.

We better take this into another thread.

 

[53V3N]

I rode ...

Were you also vaping?

 

[TooSmartGuile]

Were you also vaping?

I wish I were that cool!

By the way, its been quite sometime and I thought about a couple of things.
1. I wish I hadn't let her assume that I would stop saying pussy as soon as she told me that she didn't like it. I felt like that was the biggest mistake on my part since it probs meant I was a pushover and I don't want to be.

2. As much as I value our friendship, I should have just told her that I don't think I could stop saying pussy because I'm not one to censor myself with things people find uncomfortable actually, I remember doing this very thing a year ago with this same group simply for getting looks. It's like I'm stuck between being outspoken and being nice. I want to be nice, assertive and truthful.

3. I'll stick to my guns the next time this happens. With anyone, since I feel I can respect others' intelligence and they can respect mine.

 

[Out2Lunch]

I wish I were that cool!

By the way, its been quite sometime and I thought about a couple of things.
1. I wish I hadn't let her assume that I would stop saying pussy as soon as she told me that she didn't like it. I felt like that was the biggest mistake on my part since it probs meant I was a pushover and I don't want to be.

2. As much as I value our friendship, I should have just told her that I don't think I could stop saying pussy because I'm not one to censor myself with things people find uncomfortable actually, I remember doing this very thing a year ago with this same group simply for getting looks. It's like I'm stuck between being outspoken and being nice. I want to be nice, assertive and truthful.

3. I'll stick to my guns the next time this happens. With anyone, since I feel I can respect others' intelligence and they can respect mine.

Have you considered the “better by comparison” approach where you use a more derogatory form of slang in order to cause her to appreciate your original choice?

Some options would be:

• Penis fly trap
• Stench trench
• Soggy box
• Baby cannon
• Hippos yawn
• Cock socket
• Tampon tunnel
• Wizards sleeve
• Meat wallet
• Axe wound
• Snatch
• And the king of all vag words...CUNT!

All of these alternatives should give her a new found appreciation for the word pussy.

 

[Jugular]

 

[-=iNsANe=-ADJ]

I wish I were that cool!

By the way, its been quite sometime and I thought about a couple of things.
1. I wish I hadn't let her assume that I would stop saying pussy as soon as she told me that she didn't like it. I felt like that was the biggest mistake on my part since it probs meant I was a pushover and I don't want to be.

2. As much as I value our friendship, I should have just told her that I don't think I could stop saying pussy because I'm not one to censor myself with things people find uncomfortable actually, I remember doing this very thing a year ago with this same group simply for getting looks. It's like I'm stuck between being outspoken and being nice. I want to be nice, assertive and truthful.

3. I'll stick to my guns the next time this happens. With anyone, since I feel I can respect others' intelligence and they can respect mine.

4. Ask her if you can touch her pussy. Be sure to say pussy. Assure her it'll be a wonderful experience.

 

[Danni]

^ I had a co-worker from India who once kept saying "rape rape rape" on the telephone. I had to ask him about it later. He said that "rape" was the word for "tomorrow" in his native language.

Well, I'll just change my frame of mind now when someone says it over a video game - Context!

"Bitch, get tomorrow'd."

 

[TooSmartGuile]

Forgot about this mastapiece!

 

[Nirvana]

Pussy isn't a bad thing. It's amazing! Your friend needs to have her pussy eaten more frequently (by a man/woman/trans).

 

[Fÿn]

How the fuck did this go to Trump and Hillary?

Anyways, I dislike over sensitive people and I avoid them, both parties are happy that way.

How is "pussy" disgusting? Cunt I kind of understand but not really, since Brits and Australians use it like nothing.
Black women don't seem to be that offended by that word in America either, for instance.

I dislike political correctness and over sensitive everything so I'm biased. I think we should all be able to say what we want as long as we're trying to be funny, but there's always someone that takes it too far, of course. I just refuse to accept that all of us change our way of speaking because a minimal part of the population dislikes it.

 

[BRiT]

Cunt I kind of understand but not really, since Brits and Australians use it like nothing.
Black women don't seem to be that offended by that word in America either, for instance.

Supposedly their trigger word is Bitch.

 

[CoprophagousCop]

How the fuck did this go to Trump and Hillary?

In quoting Donald Trump, the New York Times printed the word "pussy" on its front page. So I guess you can give Trump credit for making the word more mainstream.

 

[Fÿn]

In quoting Donald Trump, the New York Times printed the word "pussy" on its front page. So I guess you can give Trump credit for making the word more mainstream.

As I'm not from the USA I sometimes have a wrong perception of how offensive words are, but based upon the fact that hip hop is hyper popular there and that they use the word "pussy" all the time, and that they play that shit all day long everywhere, I thought it was not such a big deal.

 

[CoprophagousCop]

As I'm not from the USA I sometimes have a wrong perception of how offensive words are, but based upon the fact that hip hop is hyper popular there and that they use the word "pussy" all the time, and that they play that shit all day long everywhere, I thought it was not such a big deal.

The older generations still find sexual slang words offensive. "Pussy" is supposed to be one of the words that cannot be said on television broadcasted over the air waves in the USA. It is the younger generations that mainly listen to hip hop and rap. Back in the day, only a few rap groups, such as the 2 Live Crew, used lots of profanity and sexual slang. These days it is used by many (or most) rappers who need it to sell albums.

 

[-=iNsANe=-ADJ]

Just one word: social justice warriors.
I know they're three but I don't care.

 

[thevengfulone]

I rode to the store with 3 other friends and one of them mentions California, which I consider a pussy state. However, when I call it so, one of my friends tells me she doesn't like the word pussy, since its offensive to her. I say okay and, thankfully, didn't apologize. I forget about her aversion to pussy and we discuss more on California, which I say pussy again. She gets upset and I challenge her on why pussy is offensive which she tells me it's a derogatory for vagina, and since women have 'em, it suggests pussies are women. Now I feel pressured to censor myself, but I don't want to. I want to be more true to myself and just say pussy in front of who ever I feel like.

Should I be more sensitive or more true?

Be true to yourself. this is one person that if it's not the word pussy, It will just be something else that she is offended by. Tell her not to talk about California in front of you! You find it offensive