i would have to agree.... if writing this a week ago i would have had to say that sex is more substanial then love, but after starting a new relationship with this "fella" I think that relationships are definitely worth the effort. Sure, they might not last forever, and maybe in the end all it will bring is pain, but why ruin what you might have today by fearing the future. I say, you'll never know if you'll wake up again tomorrow, so make the best of today..... and try to balance the love with the sex..... yes, that's my wisdom today.