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Should a guy make the first move ???

FlyerJt

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Should the guy make the first move or the girl?????? Ive asked other people this and they dont know how to answer. (If its the guy to make the first move, wats a good way to ?)


Thanx!!!!
 

bnccoder

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Guys should. Whip your dick out and wave it around. That always works for me.
 

meh_it_all

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I think the guy should make the first move.. because I'm rather shy, I don't act like it but I am when he comes to intamicy.
Normally if you start off hugging and then tilt her chin up to kiss.. if thats what your looking for.
Remember, kissing leads somewhere ;)
If your old enough that is!
 

meh_it_all

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Well, I hope that helps. Is that the kinda advice your looking for or not?
 

Smoke

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What I did, is I waited until the two of us were alone, and we were just tackling each other, and then when I tackled her to her bed, I went for it, and baam. :thumbsup:
Or just follows Meh's advice, that works too.
 
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I'm an old fashioned gal, guys should make the move first. If the guy shows confidence the girl is more likely to be agreeable.
 

Jeanne

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Men in France are not the same as in America. Here they do not like aggressive woman and dont understand when a woman talks to them. For them it is to take you. I much prefer Americans because they are not so afraid of a woman who knows what she likes.

Bisou!
 

polaris_nine

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I think its kinda cute when guys are shy, so then I wouldnt mind making the first move.
But I do like the old-fashioned way, becuase Im shy too.
 

keebs

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i think a guy should make the first move, but women should make it known they want him to make a move, i dated this one girl, and she always gave off body laguage of dont touch me, then later on after we broke up she was like "yeah he never tryed anything", and im like "WFT?!?! you never wanted anything!"
 

Easty

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FlyerJt said:
Should the guy make the first move or the girl?????? Ive asked other people this and they dont know how to answer. (If its the guy to make the first move, wats a good way to ?)


Thanx!!!!
all i can get out is "hi". then everything else is gibberish
 

shaekatherine

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The guy definately should. Meh's advice was the best here.
 

chspaulwall

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i agree with keebs... a guy should make the 1st move, but girls hav to show some sign that it's what they want... rite now i'm talkin w/a girl and she's said that i'd definately hav to make the first move for things to get more serious btw us... girls are jus usually so hard to read becuz they send off so many different signals and we dont know whether or not its the rite time to make the move... and timing is vurry important, cuz if u make a move when she's not ready, she'll be outta there quicker than a gloveless O.J. :thumbsup:
 

gurlgonewild

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i don't like overly eager guys, its a turn off. i do like it when guys are smooth enough to know they are welcomed to & do (make a first move).
 

FlyerJt

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Well if yal girls send off signals wat r they ?????? Thanks for all ur replies and srry im having girl troubles (tryin to figure out wat to do!!!)
 

FlyerJt

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one more thing

One thing is, This girl im tryin to get, i just found out shes moven back to her home country in the middle of june! What do i do?????? ARGGG PLEASE HELP I DONT KNOW WAT THE FUCK TO DO!!!
 

BklynCannonball

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Um, make a move?

Even if she goes, you'd at least have told her and gotten the proposition on the table. (I don't mean sex on the table. Well, that wouldn't be such a bad thing either. ha! table sex.)
 

bnccoder

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Just ask her if she wants to go see a movie sometime or something. No guts no glory.
 

TwisT

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FlyerJt said:
Should the guy make the first move or the girl?????? Ive asked other people this and they dont know how to answer. (If its the guy to make the first move, wats a good way to ?)


Thanx!!!!
If the guy wants to get a piece there ain't no harm in tryin!


If you don't make a move you'll never know now will ya!
 
#20
If you wanna make a move do it quick on the girl you like... heck my GF broke up wit me because I wasn't fast enough but then I proved her wrong and now we are back together and really happy but you should atleast try the whole kissin' thing first if she really likes you back... Don't go to far to fast.