Alright, so there's this girl I know named Julia. We were great friends in 7th grade (three years ago), but I haven't talked to her any more than passingly since.
Today, I saw her. Prior to this, I'd never even touched her, and now she wanted a hug. That was fine, I'm all for hugging. But then it just kinda got weird.
She started almost... making up reasons to hug me. I'd say something (not complaining or anything), and she'd say "Aww, I'm sorry," and give me a hug. I thought that was kinda weird, but I let it slide. I went to my class.
So, walking out of school, she walks up behind me, turns me around by my backpack, and (surprise) gives me a hug. I say "Hey" and we start walking. I'm with two other people besides her (Erik and Heather), I introduce her and then go about business as usual. I'm talking to my friend Erik, and she just starts... groping me. Like, ravenous-take me now-groping (which is really weird, espescially for her). And then she keeps trying to hold my hand. All the while, I'm doing my best to ignore the elephant in the room, and attempt to get somebody between her and myself without seeming to conspicuous.
So, we come to a fork in the path, and I say "Bye!" I grab my other friends and head the way opposite of her.
So like... what the fuck? (
) I like her and all, but I don't think of her as anything more than a friend. Either she got extremely easy, extremely quickly, and I just happened to be extremely sexy today (moreso than usual), or I'm crazy.
How am I supposed to tell her that I don't want down her pants, nor do I want her down mine? I still want her as a friend...
This is why people shouldn't have genitals until they're mature enough to (including me).
Today, I saw her. Prior to this, I'd never even touched her, and now she wanted a hug. That was fine, I'm all for hugging. But then it just kinda got weird.
She started almost... making up reasons to hug me. I'd say something (not complaining or anything), and she'd say "Aww, I'm sorry," and give me a hug. I thought that was kinda weird, but I let it slide. I went to my class.
So, walking out of school, she walks up behind me, turns me around by my backpack, and (surprise) gives me a hug. I say "Hey" and we start walking. I'm with two other people besides her (Erik and Heather), I introduce her and then go about business as usual. I'm talking to my friend Erik, and she just starts... groping me. Like, ravenous-take me now-groping (which is really weird, espescially for her). And then she keeps trying to hold my hand. All the while, I'm doing my best to ignore the elephant in the room, and attempt to get somebody between her and myself without seeming to conspicuous.
So, we come to a fork in the path, and I say "Bye!" I grab my other friends and head the way opposite of her.
So like... what the fuck? (
How am I supposed to tell her that I don't want down her pants, nor do I want her down mine? I still want her as a friend...
This is why people shouldn't have genitals until they're mature enough to (including me).