This is fucking Bullshit!!! Here we are, my woman and I (we've been together for a year and about 5 months) about to start making out and this is what she says: "None of this (touching or sucking of the breast), this (touching or sucking of the butt), and none of this (touching or sucking of the puss) alright?" Im like what the fuck!! But i dont say anything; i keep my mouth shut just to please her. So we move to the back seats and we start to make out. All im thinking about is how the fuck could she just flat out put limits on us like that and not even be bothered by the idea, so i finnally ask her whats going on and then we start this whole conversation about this shit. After a while, everything is resolved. Alright we start up again; she tries to give me a hickie, so i say "Baby you know thats just gonna get me into the mood" So she stops. So i go for it. She's like what are you doing, and im like well if you dont do it to me, then ill do it to you. But then we just start arguing and shit again, and it just pisses me off. Here she is telling me that i cant do anything to her and then she starts it!! Shit i fucking hate it. Its like shes trying to have control over every fucking thing about us and if i want anything i cant say shit about it cause it takes her so fucking much to just say " you know what, you do treat me right and you do do everything that i say, here is some thank you. But no!! Its like FUCK OFF, THIS IS MY OWN LIFE AND IM NOT GONNA DO ANYTHING FOR U!! Shit, why do i even try to be nice with her? Everytime she wants to do something im like alright baby whatever you want, and then here i am, just wanting something that we both enjoy and also that we both rarely do, ( maybe like once every month or so) and she says no. I fucking have to ask her if i can make out with her. Its like please, give me a fucking break man, you're mine and im you's, so lets fucking act like it!! And the funny thing is man, whenever she wants to do something like that, im like alright we'll do it. But when its me, its like hell no, how can you ask me to do that even though she's the one like likes sucking on my cock!! I just dont get it man. And then shes like, you see this is what happens to a relationship when you mess it up and start doing shit like that. Im like hell no baby, thats just a fucking lame excuse for people who cant live up to their decisions about what they want, its fuckin Sick!!! I FUCKING HATE IT MAN! it just makes me want to pull out of this relationship and go out with someone that a shitload more sure of herself!!! i dont fucking know man, it just sucks man. Just Pray for me, whoever reads this shit man, pray that everything will just happen for the best, ( i kinda want to break up with her, not just becuase of this, but because of other things that have happened between her parents and i) but thank you!!