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Turning into a lazy fucker. But I'm not fucking lazy yet, Rurrouni!

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Well, as a few of you know, I've been "nannying" some kids.

But it's getting old.

I enjoy the children, very much. They fill a void in my life, since the last woman I was with decided to screw me over, take away my life, and doing so, she took her child(which I had fallen in love with) away as well. But not to get off topic, the kids aren't the problem.

My problem, is the repetitiveness. Everyday, it's the same thing. I wake up, drink some coffee, and start cleaning. I hop on wtf.com for a while, and then usually end up cleaning some more. The kids get home, and I make sure they clean their rooms, or do their homework, whatever their priorities are.

I never get a chance to get out of this house, to try and work. It's hard to even go and see my friends, so my social life is lacking too. I've been alone for a while, without any females around, and that seems to get me down in a hole as well. I crave passion, and love. I need someone to feed, and adore. None of these things are possible here.

I might not be so sore about it, if I got some appreciation for the shit I do around here. I know I sound like a desparate housewife, but fuckin a.

I treat these people with respect. They always come home to a clean house, (or if I'm feeling shitty it's at least straighter than it would be if I wasn't around.) I don't just feed their kids, and prop them in front of a TV. I give them attention, and feed their creativity, and help them learn things. Most babysitters wouldn't do that kind of shit.

I understand these people are giving me a home, and feeding me, but that's it. I don't exactly eat alot. I'm the only one who knows how to conserve energy or water, etc. I make sure things get done, that they can't accomplish while working.

Being a normal human being, and talking to them, never seems to work. Things just don't get through their head.

Something's got to give.

(thanks for reading my bitching.)
 
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The only thing I can say is, man, that sucks.
 

UberSkippy

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I suggested this earlier but dude, learn the fine art of the fire bomb.

In all reality, I gots no advice. I've never been able to stand kids so I'd suck as a nanny.

I don't guess you could take a day off could you? Take a Saturday, go out and see the friendlies?

What other options do you have? You been saving all the $$ they're paying you? I'm guessing they pay you like shit? I've never met a rich nanny.

Dunno dude. Break stuff.
 

Rurrouni

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Think a little of the future. Though you like going on wtf.com you should consider spending some time and trying to get a degree at home and find a good job. Laziness is a excuse you can use for only so long.
 
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UberSkippy said:
I don't guess you could take a day off could you? Take a Saturday, go out and see the friendlies?

What other options do you have? You been saving all the $$ they're paying you? I'm guessing they pay you like shit? I've never met a rich nanny.

Dunno dude. Break stuff.

They don't pay me. I get a home, food, and smokes. Whoo hoo.

If I get really lucky, I get to work with some people on Saturday, and Sunday, for some extra coin.

But on most Saturdays and Sundays, they say something along the lines of "Ok! We're going here, and there, be back in an hour!" Then I won't see them for about 6 or 7 hours, and most of my day is fucked. It's getting old.
 
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Rurrouni said:
Think a little of the future. Though you like going on wtf.com you should consider spending some time and trying to get a degree at home and find a good job. Laziness is a excuse you can use for only so long.
This guy's full of good advice. (Yes, I'm being serious.) That's why I've added him to my buddy list. Though, I could understand that being easier said than done.
 
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Rurrouni said:
Think a little of the future. Though you like going on wtf.com you should consider spending some time and trying to get a degree at home and find a good job. Laziness is a excuse you can use for only so long.

It's not really laziness. It's just lack of time for myself. I guess my title was kinda off. Did you even bother reading the rest of the post though?? :thumbsdn:
 

UberSkippy

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HavokChylde said:
They don't pay me. I get a home, food, and smokes. Whoo hoo.

If I get really lucky, I get to work with some people on Saturday, and Sunday, for some extra coin.

But on most Saturdays and Sundays, they say something along the lines of "Ok! We're going here, and there, be back in an hour!" Then I won't see them for about 6 or 7 hours, and most of my day is fucked. It's getting old.
Hmmm sneak out early Saturday morning? Go into the bathroom and tell them you'll be out in a few minutes. Hang out for the entire day. (This would be an oportune time to sneak out of course.)

Well, you have computer rights yes? So why not use some of your free time to search the web for a job? I don't know what your skills are but you know, being allowed to take care of other people's kids shows one of two things:
1. You're dependable, reliable, honest and a swell decision maker or
2. The other people are fucking morons.

So you gotta hope for option 1 and play that up to all it's worth.
 

Rurrouni

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I read most of it but you seemed to babble a lot. You dont seem to have much free time and I can sympathize a little (dont have that much experience with it). Like I said before about the degree, it's something you can do at your own pace even if it's slow. At this rate you'll resign yourself to your current fate and the later you start the harder it'll become.
 
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To UberSkippy, and Rurrouni :

I am constantly searching for work, or "distance learning" opportunities. I do have priorities. Also I try to sneak off, when I get the chance. :thumbsup:

Rurrouni : Let me go ahead, and set the record straight, because my thread title throws my "babbling" off. I'm not a lazy fucker! If you would get off your fucking high horse and read some of my "babbling", you would see I do stay busy as a bee. It's not that I'm lazy. It's that I don't do much for myself.
 
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Now, now, boys. Let's lower those hackles, hmm? Havok Chylde, I sympathize with you. I know what it's like to do everything for someone and get nothing in return. Rurrouni, I think it's probably best you don't mix in insults with advice. And don't give uninformed advice.
 

Smoke

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HC, TEAR 'EM UP.
You can do it!
 

Rurrouni

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hahaha I gave up the lazy thing after ther first post. And I agree I really have no right to give advice so you can ignore almost everything I've said. But I have to say one thing, just working hard isn't enough to get you anywhere, you have to be smart and cunning. You can ignore this advice if you want though.
 

UberSkippy

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HavokChylde said:
I am constantly searching for work, or "distance learning" opportunities. I do have priorities. Also I try to sneak off, when I get the chance. :thumbsup:
Well then, my only advice is "MORE BEER!"

You could be a slide tester. I hear they get paid well. :D
 

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HavokChylde said:
I might not be so sore about it, if I got some appreciation for the shit I do around here. I know I sound like a desparate housewife, but fuckin a.
I can arrange a meeting with TO :cool:
 

gurlgonewild

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HC, most live-ins get their own room, a little spending money each week, access to the family car, and at least one day off a week. sounds like you need a better contract negotiator...your deal is raw!

what you should do is go through help wanted ads and show them the standard most live-ins receive and ask if there's anything they can do to help you out. if they say no, don't object just respond to those ads you've highlighted and start looking for a new job.

the woman dilemna i can't help you out w/, unless you'd like to be nekkid 24/7? LOL ;)

GL w/ that HC!