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Ughhhh, I'm falling for my friends girl.

Smoke

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Ughh, well, since me and my friends girl have been hanging out , I've been starting to like her now, but I don't know what to do with this situation, I mean shes really cool and shit, but I also don't want to intertrude on my friend, and since her and my friend just had a fight over, and apparently it was 'over' yesterday, ugh..
 

Captain 151

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My best friend did that to me and my girlfriend. They started hanging out together while I was away at college, and they fucked me over. I was super pissed off, but then I went and cheated on her with a hangful of meaningless fucks so I felt justified. I broke up with her sorry ass, but stayed friends with my best friend. He has since apologized, and I said it was OK (mostly because I'd slept around and felt better about it).

My advice is not to do anything. It's not worth the potential turmoil.
 

switch_scribe

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Here's my take on it.

I started hanging around with my best friend's boyfriend, and got to like him really well. Long story short, before long my friend turned into a crazy bitch (for no reason, we were still just friends then), and he dumped her to be with me. We dated for 7 years and are still best friends. So, for me it worked out well, but with a lot of drama initially. So it could probably go either way. You have to decide who is more important to you.
 
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Be honorable and don't do anything.

If they break up though, comfort her and move in.... WAHAHAHAHA.
 

Smoke

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Well, I'm not sure if they broke up officially or not, she says they're still together, maybe i'll give it a while and see what happens then.
 

DIZNUTS

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dude dont fuck up the unwritten guy rule #37 "dont take your friends gf/wife"
 

Smoke

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Well I decided, that its never going to work, and we just decided to be friends. So I'm over this little situation anymore. :thumbsup:
 
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Smoke said:
Ughh, well, since me and my friends girl have been hanging out , I've been starting to like her now, but I don't know what to do with this situation, I mean shes really cool and shit, but I also don't want to intertrude on my friend, and since her and my friend just had a fight over, and apparently it was 'over' yesterday, ugh..
One of my best friends decided to go out with one of my girlfriends that broke up with me that I still cared very much for. I beat his ass and still haven't forgiven him. Doesn't matter because he's too scared to come anywhere near me anymore. The point is, I lost one of my oldest friends over a girl. Don't let that happen to you.

*Sorry I didnt read the last post before I posted... good... problem solved.
 

DIZNUTS

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Smoke said:
Well I decided, that its never going to work, and we just decided to be friends. So I'm over this little situation anymore. :thumbsup:
yup problem solved case closed........now where is my beer?
 

magnolia

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I say let things cool off between ur friend and his girl. Or ex girl. Whatever they are at this point. Once things cool off if u two were meant to hook up it'll happen.
 

Adrenalin_junky

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that aint good at all, i know one of my mates likes my girl and man it fucks me off.
 

el crotcho

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Dude if you wanna get with this chick, you better abide the man code and get permission from your friend first.