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Used Abused N Refused

esxho

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At 5 o clock my time i went cinema . . followed by clubbing with ma best mate just come bk from holiday. At the club was this guy that i had got with the night before.

He text me before i got there sayin I would appreciate it if you forgot about last night.

I was dancing with ma best mate, who is a bloke n he got the right huff saying i kept lookin at luke (guy from night before). I said yeah i know im gutted . . . twice in one week being turned down, am i a bloke and not know it?

Anyhu, Will (best mate) got drunk n started comin on to me. i pushed him away gently n sed tht i culdn't yet. We then decided to go down the park and play on the swings.

There he has a go at me for leading him on!?!

Hes the only person i can talk to. Now he's just text me sayin, i love u but i cant do this anymore. Meaning he cant be friends. Wot else have i got to loose??

First my long-term bf then my mum n dad now my best friend . . plus being turned down by sum guy in between.

IM JUST USED ABUSED N THEN REFUSED!! :banghead: :surrendr:













*Doesn't help im seing a physciatrist. or on prozac need i say more!??!
 

JLXC

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I'm sorry for your current problems, but you're young and attractive, maybe it's your attitude? Are you one of those ladies who only wants to date the "perfect" guys? Or only the really handsome ones? Do you try to date people you've known for a while, like friends? We need some more info on who you want to date before we can really say much, other than it sucks to be rejected, and many of us here know how that feels.

Maybe it's time to really figure out what the hell you want out of dating. I'm sorry about the family unfortunately nothing much to be done about that.

So tell us some more and maybe we could help, if only a little. Good luck in any case.
 

_Kitana_

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esxho said:
At 5 o clock my time i went cinema . . followed by clubbing with ma best mate just come bk from holiday. At the club was this guy that i had got with the night before.

He text me before i got there sayin I would appreciate it if you forgot about last night.

I was dancing with ma best mate, who is a bloke n he got the right huff saying i kept lookin at luke (guy from night before). I said yeah i know im gutted . . . twice in one week being turned down, am i a bloke and not know it?

Anyhu, Will (best mate) got drunk n started comin on to me. i pushed him away gently n sed tht i culdn't yet. We then decided to go down the park and play on the swings.

There he has a go at me for leading him on!?!

Hes the only person i can talk to. Now he's just text me sayin, i love u but i cant do this anymore. Meaning he cant be friends. Wot else have i got to loose??

First my long-term bf then my mum n dad now my best friend . . plus being turned down by sum guy in between.

IM JUST USED ABUSED N THEN REFUSED!! :banghead: :surrendr:













*Doesn't help im seing a physciatrist. or on prozac need i say more!??!


Hmmm... Not sure what to add to this. Perhaps you just need sometime to rediscover yourself. It may take awhile and it kind of hard, however once you realize it, it really awsome. Best of luck to you.
 

esxho

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JLXC said:
I'm sorry for your current problems, but you're young and attractive, maybe it's your attitude? Are you one of those ladies who only wants to date the "perfect" guys? Or only the really handsome ones? Do you try to date people you've known for a while, like friends? We need some more info on who you want to date before we can really say much, other than it sucks to be rejected, and many of us here know how that feels.

Maybe it's time to really figure out what the hell you want out of dating. I'm sorry about the family unfortunately nothing much to be done about that.

So tell us some more and maybe we could help, if only a little. Good luck in any case.

this is a pic of one of my ex bf's. He isn't really a pretty boi. Although i do sometimes like em pretty. I can't handle being friends with them first. I like to get to know them during the relationship.

*how come the words refused and abused come up in red??* Im pretty dam clever. lol.

I hate being rejected. I've just had a phonecall from me best mate. he's coming round to talk. I fcuking hate this. Grr :sword: :bonk: :kickcan: :rant: :banghead:
 

meh_it_all

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Wow, well that seems like a lot, I don't think you need the guy who said "forget about last night". but maybe i'm wrong. :confused:
 

esxho

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Will had sed i have to chose whether or not i want to be more with him or not. I fancy this guy tho and i have dun for the past 2 years. Tonight he held my hand. Am i getting too far ahead of myself? :(
 

meh_it_all

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You might be reading too much into things... 'cos you like him so. But personally if a guy said that to me then..blah... :rolleyes:
 

RageAgainst

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Being friends with a girl you're attracted to fucking SUCKS. I understand your friend in not wanting to do this anymore.
 

BrIONwoshMunky

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Guys cannot be friends with any girl they find remotely attractive. I just doesn't work. Pictures of nekkidness floating through the mind... And seeing a girl you care for get shat upon again and again just plain sucks.
 

JLXC

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BrIONwoshMunky said:
Guys cannot be friends with any girl they find remotely attractive. It just doesn't work. Pictures of nekkidness floating through the mind... And seeing a girl you care for get shat upon again and again just plain sucks.
Listen to this man. He speaks much wisdom in these words. Women hate this, and men lie about it, but the truth is the truth.
 

esxho

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Tel me about it. This guy I have fancied since like the past 2 years when he moved into my area, has become avaliable. I started getting with him n then he says that will is also his best mate as wel as mine (best mate) and that he cnt do it to him. So basically becasue of my best mate I can't have wot i want.

BTW i kicked the shit out of sam for cheating on me twice.

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