Sex can get you in jailed. (rape)
Sex can get you in troubled. (unwanted pregnancy)
Sex killed the innocence. (abortion)
Sex can get you killed. (death because of illegal abortion)
Sex can make you have horrible diseases. (Aids, gonorrhea, etc.)
Sex brings misery.
Sex is the most evil.
I think we have strayed into odd land. Let's keep the positive vibes up people!Sex can get you in jailed. (rape)
Sex can get you in troubled. (unwanted pregnancy)
One extra to lead on from this fantastic advice: use your boyish charms to woo an older lady. She'll teach you exactly what to do (many times), so you can enjoy those 10-20 girls all the more while you're waiting for that special one.Ok, kiddies. Let's talk about this. I just have to say some things that have been going through my mind, especially after reading many posts on these forums.
First, I remember what it was like, very vividly, so trust me, you can't tell me I don't know. When I was in high school, I really thought I was the only virgin left, it just seemed like everyone was talking or eluding to the fact that they'd had sex. It wasn't until college that I realized how many people lie in high school. I began to admire those who had the will and smarts about them to hold off.
I just want to point something out to so many teens who are already having sex. Whoever you're with right now is in all likelihood NOT going to become your life partner. In fact you are most likely going to meet atleast 3-10 other people you'll have a relationship before you find that person. Are you going to sleep with ALL of them too? The answer is probably, "yes". So, if you start out at 13,14,15,16.... and your average relationship is less than a year, and most people marry in their mid twenties (that's those who don't want to rush into things), that's approximately 10-20 more partners you will have!
Each time you are playing the odds against non-desired outcomes such as pregnancy or STD's, somewhat of a sexual roulette. I know everyone will do as they do and this will more than likely go in one eye and out the other, but stop and think how much time you've got ahead of you. Ask yourself if perhaps you should atleast wait until you're older to find someone who might make a more suitable partner than someone who likes all the same rock bands as you. You have NO idea of what you are going to like or dislike or the goals or even ambitions you'll have in 10 years, keep in mind this "perfect" guy/girl right now will change as well.
Of course, I am not dense enough to believe that any of you will take this seriously, nor am I saying "abstain" (ok, I had to say that for the sake of the thread - really, I am saying it, ABSTAIN), but I'm just saying don't kid yourselves with these feelings you have now, be smart enough to know what I've mentioned and more than likely what you already know and realize it's not worth possibly throwing off things that you'd like to do with your life and may not even know yet. You've got so much life ahead of you and it would be a shame to miss out on those things because a hormone spike hit you at the wrong moment.
I've probably forgotten much more and I'm sure as others post here they'll come to me, I just wanted to open up this type of thread and get the wheels turning anyway.
It's not just a part of life...It's one of the FUN parts of life. We're too fucking repressed as a society. We thing blood and guts and violence is ok, but sexuality and intimacy are chided and shunned.I just don't get the big debates over sex. It's sex. It's almost instinctive. It's been happening for thousands upon thousands of years.
If you're ready, you're ready.
If you aren't, you aren't. Only you can know.
And if you're worried about pregnancy, wear a rubber or get on birth control. Or both. Other than that, no one gives a shit.
Sorry to sound so cavalier but I mean it's a natural part of life.
Why are you a horrible person? Sounds like something besides sex took place.I lost my virginity two weeks before I turned 18..
Stayed with the girl for a year, spending everyday together and had too much sex with her. It didn't work out.
I've been sleeping with several random women since to fill the void in my heart she left me.
I don't feel better, and most of you women are whores anyway. Not like I'm one to talk.
I don't love her anymore, she's married to a pastor and has a kid on the way.
Oh, yeah she totally hates me and wants me dead. Don't blame her though, I'm a horrible person.
Well, I constantly convinced her at every opportunity to have sex. Even she didn't want too, I'd talk her into it anyway.Why are you a horrible person? Sounds like something besides sex took place.
I don't see how her inability to say no is your fault.Well, I constantly convinced her at every opportunity to have sex. Even she didn't want too, I'd talk her into it anyway.
I hurt her a lot, down there. I've tried to apologize and ask for her forgiveness. But, shes had enough of me.
I never cheated, even though she constantly accused me. I never beat her or anything like that.
Just way too much rough sex.