Juwa said:
ok this is the story...My friend and I have been best friends for 3 years. I have had feelings for her in the past but since she had a boyfriend I ignored them. Now I found out that for a while she has had the same feelings.....
The thing is I now I have a boyfriend...that...I'm deeply involved in but I still have that feeling for her....Ahh! you know?...ok...
First of all..does your boyfriend knows about your feelings for a woman?
If not...talk about it..find a good moment..
If he doesn't mind...you can talk about your feelings for her....
If he does mind..well than don't talk about that subject and try to have that later again. It took me a couple of months...and now mine doesn't mind that I like girls just like boys..
Does your bestfriend know about your feelings and how did you hear that she has the same feelings for you?
Its not just like that ...because the both of you are in a relation now.
So you (juwa) can't just say..I like you (to the bestfriend ) lets have a fuck...(only guys do that)...
And to say that you are a lesbian..(smart reaction ...duh..) well...that says something about that person than about you.
( edited, because it seems that no one takes ya serieus...so B&T seems to count everywhere...)
