Say what you will. I thought people on this board might just back me up, but I guess you're just a little shit-face like the one who'd stab their best friend in the back. You fuckin know that if this happened to you you'd think the same fuckin way, so don't come judging me. And he's still a virgin, and he's still hasn't even 'cum' because of what a girl has done. You're just a big of hypocrite of that motherfucker I wanna kill... Fuck you and your right hand, because I know that's the only action you've ever got.yowatupdogg said:wow yes u sound like a whinning teen girl
well at least ur friend got some pussy
Move on dude, you're trying to hang on to a chick you don't need. If she's doing crap like this now, it'll only get worse, bail right now before your heart get's in too deep. Your friend Andy, bail on that piece of crap as well. Let him have the girl, they truly are a match. The hurtin' will go away, and it'll be totally gone once you focus in on a worthwhile chick.tendos_rage said:Say what you will. I thought people on this board might just back me up, but I guess you're just a little shit-face like the one who'd stab their best friend in the back. You fuckin know that if this happened to you you'd think the same fuckin way, so don't come judging me. And he's still a virgin, and he's still hasn't even 'cum' because of what a girl has done. You're just a big of hypocrite of that motherfucker I wanna kill... Fuck you and your right hand, because I know that's the only action you've ever got.
See, I thought this might happen... I expected it actually. She really didn't do anything wrong. I know that sounds crazy here, but it's the truth. She's been hurt by guys in the past. Even her own fucking Grandpa when she was a kid, and her dad is a total ass and walked out on them telling her she was worthless and would never amount to anything. She didn't go looking for ways to hurt me, she just accepted ways in which others wanted to hurt her, because she feels that that is why she was put on this earth. She thinks of herself as trash and Andy only helped her in thinking that. I didn't mention this before, but right after the first incident, he went off on "not wanting a gf right now" which is bs cause that's all he's ever wanted. He was just using her for his cock.GottaHurt said:Move on dude, you're trying to hang on to a chick you don't need. If she's doing crap like this now, it'll only get worse, bail right now before your heart get's in too deep. Your friend Andy, bail on that piece of crap as well. Let him have the girl, they truly are a match. The hurtin' will go away, and it'll be totally gone once you focus in on a worthwhile chick.
Why deal with the drama when you don't have to.
She didn't do it cause she felt sorry for him. He wanted it, and she has just always thought that these kind of things are the only things a guy would ever want her for.yowatupdogg said:well i have to agree i think ur girlfriend is a peace of crap i find it hard to belive she did all this shit cause she felt bad for him
You're spot on, friends don't do shit like that, not true friends anyways.tendos_rage said:I'm not wrong here, am I? A best friend moving in on your girl is fucked up, no?
I hate guy who think being a virgin is a bad thing, like they have to screw to some how make themselves look bigger you know what...tendos_rage said:Say what you will. I thought people on this board might just back me up, but I guess you're just a little shit-face like the one who'd stab their best friend in the back. You fuckin know that if this happened to you you'd think the same fuckin way, so don't come judging me. And he's still a virgin, and he's still hasn't even 'cum' because of what a girl has done. You're just a big of hypocrite of that motherfucker I wanna kill... Fuck you and your right hand, because I know that's the only action you've ever got.
Ok I went back and read this long ass post... why cause I am a nice person... lets just say this chick that you care so much about is an attention starved little whore... who playing you. TRust me its all part of her lil game, its hard to explain. Its not cause she wants to hurt herself.. it cause she likes the attention it gets hers. Why is it you guys are so blind to this, well not all but most. Drop the bitch... let andy get his dick sucked by her and move on... End of Problemtendos_rage said:Okay, I've been perusing the forums for a bit now, and I still haven't read anything that's as royally fucked up as what happened to me and my girlfriend. Here goes...
So, I used to be real sad all the time. Usually along side one of my best and closest friends (let's call him... "Andy"). Me and Andy would talk about everything, but most of our convos would come back to women all the time. These'd be deep convos too. It seemed that neither of us just wanted a girl to fuck (both of us were virgins), but something deeper. I thought me and him thought alike on all matters when it came to women. If you found one that would love you, and you loved her, you just became the luckiest man alive.
Well, one day, we're spending the night with our friends (call her "Sabrina" and him "Will") at Sabrina's neighbors house [after many white lies] and we're just hangin out and watchin movies and stuff. It gets to be like 5 am and I'm tired as fuck, so I basically pass out. Well, I wake up a bit later and the first thing I notice is the couch being empty [which is where I left Sabrina and Andy when I passed out] so I look at Will and he just says, "They went upstairs." Now I know what you're thinking, but I wasn't. I couldn't imagine how Andy would ever try something, or anything, cause we had always agreed that we were both looking for something deeper. So I didn't think anything of it. They came down and Andy, before even setting foot in the room, was like "Will, come here..." and waved Will into the other room to tell him something... Okay, whatever. I'm thinking, "Andy and Sabrina talked and he wants to tell him what about."
Well, I was wrong. Driving home, and hearing a certain song on the radio, I realized I was stupid to deny what I knew had happened, and that the reason I was doing so was that I really liked Sabrina without ever knowing. So when I got home, I pumped it out of Will online that Andy got Sabrina to give him 'head.' I've found out much later that isn't what happened. He starts touching her on the couch, he asks her if he can go farther, he asks her to go upstairs. Then, when she asks what he intends to do, he just takes off her top and bra while saying, "I saw this one thing in a porno..." and just grabs her chest and tries to titty-fuck her. That isn't working for him, so he asks her to jerk him. She does so until her arms are tired and he still hasn't come yet. She stops cause she can't do it anymore, and he's like "Well I'm close, so why don't I just finish myself off?" So he's doing that (and from what I hear, he enjoyed that way too much) and he asks her "What're we gonna do with it?" and she says "umm... I don't know... I'm not sure where she (her neighbor) keeps the trashcans." but the mother fucker doesn't even hesitate and says "You could just swallow it..." So, he gets her to do that.... Fucker...
So, (still talking to Will online) I start freakin out, cause I really really hate Andy for doing this, something that's totally not him, and to a girl who I just realized I really like. I talk to Will online for a long time, telling him that I want to ask her out (or at least tell her how I feel) that day, because the shit will hit the fan tomorrow at school. He does a horrible job at dropping subtle hints, but Sabrina gets the point and I go to meet her after her shift that night.
Her shift ended at 8 that night. I was there waiting. After a seriously long-ass time of deep conversation, I find out she only did it because she didn't care whatsoever. Not about herself or him. So, after like 2 hours of talking, we're kind of just 'with' one another. Despite what happened, I still want to be with her, and she apparently liked me before all this, but gave up awhile back. So, at this point, things are good. I have a girlfriend I couldn't be happier with and I've even almost gotten passed what Andy did. I did hate it, but he was one of my best friends and it was before I was dating her, so I moved on. I did, however, ask him seriously about the issue a few weeks later, just because I thought we were cool but I didn't have an explanation from him. I tried to explain to him why Sabrina did it, and her state of mind and self-image, and how she was vulnerable because of it all.
So Andy's b-day was coming up and we wanted to do something cause he's so down all the time. He's busy on that day, so we plan something for the week after that. (Skipping to the after-party) We (the whole group of friends) went to "Laura's" house to just chill and eat ans watch movies. For most of the time, I was on 'the big pillow' with Sabrina and Andy being on the other side. She can never keep still during a movie, and was constantly biting me and Andy cause she was hyper as fuck. It was all in good fun though. Anyway, some people leave, and we want more movies, and Andy's got to leave to feed his dogs anyway, so he says he'll pick up some movies while he's there. Like I said, he's always sad, so Sabrina offered to go with him so he wouldn't feel neglected. (Keep this event in mind for later explanation) Anyway, they get back, we watch some more movies and we eventually leave and I take Sabrina home. I thought it was a good day...
Turns out, that only two days after I had that serious talk with Andy, he offers to skip with Sabrina because he has a fix for a problem of her's that she wants to get rid of. No biggy, right? Wrong. They go and since he has nowhere to go, they stop in a parking lot somewhere. They get to talking about the problem, then about why Sabrina thinks the way she does (which is something I've explained to this fucker before) but then the convo leads to sex. Andy asks Sabrina if she'd sleep with him if her and I weren't together, and (answering honestly) she says "Yes, I probably would," but that's only because she thinks she deserves to be hurt like that... So Andy starts up on the night at Sabrina's neighbor's house. He's goin on about wanting to "return the favor" and how he would've that night if she had answered "Yes" to his question of "Do you shave?" She (thinking he can be trusted now) honestly tells him she only said that because she didn't want him going down there. He takes offense to this and starts going off like "You lied to me?! Why would you do such a thing?!" and eventually guilts her into letting him finger her. Didn't she just say she didn't want you down there in the first place?! Take a FUCKING hint you ass rag! :sword: So, as he's doing that (and doing it wrong, so I hear) she's going nowhere, and he says "I wish you could do more of what you were doing at your neighbors," so he gets her hand in his pants, but very shortly later she says "We've only got four minutes until class starts." So they both stop, and the dumb fucker says "Did you come?" No she didn't come you fucking hypocrite. You couldn't pleasure a woman if the directions were tattooed on her stomach. Amd remember, this is my fucking girlfriend and only two days after I had that huge talk with Andy.
Okay, I'm gonna try and make this short. On the night of Andy's b-day, when Sabrina went to "feed his dogs" with him, the fucker pulled out his cock in the car and asked her: if she'd blow him, if he could go down/finger her, if he could fuck her, and if he could do ANYTHING at all with her. She said no to every one of his requests and has since told me every detail I wanted to know.
I love my girlfriend. She's told me things about her past that she's never told anyone before. So, I know why these things happened, and that's why I'm still with her. All my friends just say "Move on," or even worse, "It wasn't just his fault," but it was, because if it weren't for him, nothing would have ever happened. Since learning everything, I've wanted to just smash his fucking face in with my bare fucking fists. I'd imagine that many of you have felt that rage where you feel that pain would only fuel it? Yeah, that's what I have all the time. And I have to see his fucking face at school every fucking day. He's 'mad' at me too, for telling people what he did when they ask why we're not friends anymore, and why I hate him, cause he's "such a nice guy," "harmless," etc... Yeah, he gets mad at me when look what he did, and he still tries to talk to her...
Andy: what i was doin to you in the freds parking lot, what
happened at your neigbors house
Sabrina: you still think about that?
Andy: yeah sometimes
Sabrina: wow why?
Andy: because i liked it
Andy: i wanted to make you climax in the freds parking lot but
we didnt have time
Sabrina: why? its not like making a girl cum does anything
for a guy
Andy: no i wanted too, still do
Andy: i dunno
Sabrina: lol, good reason
Andy: i just want to, i want to feel it again
Andy: do it when theres plenty of time no worries about
Andy: and hearing you moan is a major turn on
Andy: but thats just me
Andy: id only want it once
Andy: i mean it was awesome dont get me wrong
but, you know i dont ponder on it, like tendo is,
personally it isnt that big of a deal
Andy: he should be thanking me not getting
I just wanna fuckin beat his face in until I can't move anymore. Fuck knives or guns, I wanna use my hands... I've heard that he's got a baseball bat in the back of his car with my name written on it. Fuckin do it you pussy prick. I don't fuckin care anymore. But every time I see him in the hall my heart starts beating faster and I just wanna shove his fuckin little pathetic head into a locker and watch him bleed...
Well, it's too late for that advice. We told each other we loved one another before all of this happened.Deez Nutz said:You might fall in love with her and think she's the best thing in the world...
I don't regret it either. That's what we did. It ment something to me, and it ment something to her. It was both of our first times, and yet again, this happened before everything else did. And I told andy that we made love and I loved her in the "talk" I mentioned in the first post. So he knew before he did anything._Kitana_ said:The one thing in my life I will never regret is waiting untill I found the right person to share that part of my life with... I can look back and say, i never got used by an asswipe, got knocked up...or played...
and that I truly love him... and it ment something to him, because he loved me back...
I didn't just fuck... I made love.. and when you grow up and become a man and make love... it will feel 100 times better then anything you ever experinced...
UGH WHY ARE YOU GUYS SO FUCKING STUPID!tendos_rage said:Well, it's too late for that advice. We told each other we loved one another before all of this happened.
I don't regret it either. That's what we did. It ment something to me, and it ment something to her. It was both of our first times, and yet again, this happened before everything else did. And I told andy that we made love and I loved her in the "talk" I mentioned in the first post. So he knew before he did anything.